In this amazing episode, I speak with Mrs. Devorah Kigel, a dating coach and mentor who has helped hundreds of women "marry a mensch." We speak about Mrs. Kigel's new book, "Marry a Mensch: Timeless Jewish Wisdom for Today's Single Woman." Mrs. Kigel tells us about her Jewish Journey and how she became a dating coach. She shares her relationship and dating wisdom, both from the Torah and her own life experiences, in hopes that Jewish women can find their mensch with more clarity and ease. Some topics we cover:How the Hollywood view of dating differs from the Jewish approachHow to work on self-esteem in datingHow to make a dealbreaker listWhether to continue dating if the attraction is neutral Touch in dating and much more!This was one of my favorite episodes on the Podcast- fun and filled with wisdom- you don't want to miss it! More about Mrs. Devorah Kigel: As a professional Dating Coach, Mrs. Devorah Kigel has helped well over 300 women get clarity in their dating life and marry their bashert.  She has also been teaching classes for women on Judaism since 2001. She has her Masters in French and lived in Paris for 2 years, before discovering Torah Judaism and becoming observant. Devorah and her husband, Reuven, who is the Campus Director for Emet Outreach, host Shabbos guests most weeks. Using humor and honesty, Devorah shares the entertaining personal journey that led her to develop powerful tools to have the relationships you desire. Devorah’s first book, “Marry a Mensch: timeless Jewish wisdom for today’s single woman “ was released on September 3rd by Gefen Publishing.Connect with Mrs. Devorah Kigel:Her WebsiteHer Instagram

I am very excited to present my conversation with Chava Green, a women's studies scholar and a Chassidic Jew. Chava's dissertation, “the Hasidic face of feminism," explores how the idea of feminism expresses itself in the Chabad community, both through the Rebbe's teachings and in the lives of Chabad women. In our conversation, Chava and I define feminism and discuss this seemingly paradoxical idea of a "Chasidic Feminist." We hear about her journey to becoming a Chasidic feminist, and dive a bit deeper into her research. We touch on some common struggles that many Jewish women face and how the Rebbe spoke to those challenges. We also speak about sheitels (wigs) and cleaning help, among other things-this is a must-listen! A bit more about Chava: Chava Green received her PhD in Religious Studies from Emory University in May 2024. She has a BA in Women’s and Gender Studies from Rutgers University–New Brunswick. In between her undergraduate and graduate work, she lived in Israel for two years studying Judaism in Jerusalem and Tzfat (Safed).  Chava lives in Philadelphia with her husband and three children. This coming year she will be a visiting scholar at UPenn in the Jewish Studies department while also teaching classes in the Chabad girl’s high school. Chava is passionate about bridging her academic work to the Jewish community and to a popular audience. Her writings can be found on TheJewishWoman.org. To contact Chava: [email protected]  Nishmat Online Beit Midrash Program Fall 2024Modern Jewish Girl Website

I was surprised to learn that the Three Weeks, when we mourn the loss of the Holy Temple in Jerusalem, is actually filled with the greatest light. Drawing on teachings from the Nesivos Shalom and Rav Shimshon Pincus, join me as I explore why our Sages tell us that TshB'Av, the darkest day on the Jewish calendar, is actually the "greatest festival" and what this means for us.  Modern Jewish Girl WebsiteSources:https://torah.org/torah-portion/ravfrand-5780-terumah/Rav Shimshon Dovid Pincus, Moadei Hashanah: Exile and Consolation - The Three Weeks and Tishah b'AvGems from the Nesivos Sholom-Three Weeks and the Holocaust, Hashem’s Love Revealed at the Time of Destruction, p. 59 

Join me as I speak again with my close friend, teacher, and mentor, Yael (Seruya) Zdanowitz, who co-founded Chamal Har Nof, an emergency relief organization that helps displaced families, army bases, and wives of soldiers in Israel. Yael gives us an update on how Chamal Har Nof has shifted its focus to match the changing needs in Israel.  She highlights two crucial initiatives they are working on right now: 1. To raise money for displaced and special needs children to attend camp this summer and 2. To supply the army with much-needed sources of protein. We speak about donor fatigue and how we can continue to help support our brothers and sisters in Israel.  Click here for the new Modern Jewish Girl Website!Click here to donate to Chamal Har Nof(Tax receipts are available in the US, UK, Canada and Israel) 

Join me as I chat with one of my Torah teachers, Faigy Blumstein. We talk about Faigy's Jewish background, how she started teaching Torah, how she began davening at the Ohel- the Lubavitcher Rebbe's resting place,  how she began teaching Tanya (Chabad Chassidus), what we can learn from Tanya in our lives, her family's involvement in the Thank You Hashem movement, connecting to Chassidus, and more! This was a fun one filled with nuggets of wisdom, great stories, and lots of laughs.  More About Faigy: Faigy has been working with Olami Manhattan for 13 years now! Although born and bred in Brooklyn, she is currently a “Real House Wife” of Long Island. She is married to the entrepreneur Elimelech Blumstein and has a boatload of kids (6 to be exact). She spent 4 years living in Israel while attending College abroad. After receiving her Masters in Psychology, she works as a school psychologist for the Board of Education.  She teaches Torah on Monday evenings at Olami Manhattan and hosts the "Ignite" program for women. Faigy is known as a “Mystic Millenial” and teaches Chassidus to the masses, specifically through her Tanya with Faigy class.  Along with learning one-on-one with students, she spends time with brides and teaches them the secrets behind the beauty of a Jewish Marriage. Her favorite things are manicures, running, and Starbucks. She prides herself on trying out new recipes and loves hosting for Shabbat.Resources:Learn Tanya with FaigyFollow Faigy on InstagramOlami ManhattanThank You HashemModern Jewish Girl

In this Pesach minisode, I speak about the process of liberation we can experience on Pesach. Based on the teachings of the Lubavitcher Rebbe, I discuss our obligation to feel as if we were freed from Egypt every day and how to view the marror, or bitterness, in our lives. Click here for the new Modern Jewish Girl Website!References:The Kol Menachem HaggadahFrom Bondage to Freedom

Join me as I speak with life coach Erika Needleman. Erika shares her beautiful Jewish journey and talks about her coaching practice- Adulting with Erika. Why is adulting so hard for our generation? What can we do to make it easier? Erika is filled with Torah-based wisdom, which infuses her coaching practice and gives women the tools they need to stop resisting, reacting, and distracting, and start loving their (imperfect) lives. About Erika Needleman :Erika is a Life Coach for Women who loves to help her clients learn to love themselves and their lives, even if they aren't perfect...or even close to it. She sees the connection between women's relationship with Hashem and their relationship with themselves and helps them work on the deeply practical as well as the emotional and spiritual aspects of their lives. She loves fusing modern coaching tools and techniques with the infinite well of wisdom that is the Torah.   She is a mother of four, a doula, an amateur potter, and a Torah educator for Jewish Women's Connection of Atlanta. Connect with Erika:LinkedIn InstagramFacebook Click here for the new Modern Jewish Girl Website! 

Purim is an especially auspicious time for destroying evil, as the Jews defeated Haman, a descendent of the evil nation Amalek, at that time. Based on the teachings of the Nesivos Shalom, Jenna shares a spiritual recipe for defeating evil in our times, both on a national and personal scale.  Click here for the new Modern Jewish Girl Website!References:Gems From the Nesivos Shalom: Purim by Rabbi S. Binyomin Ginsberg 

Jenna speaks with her close friend, teacher, and mentor, Yael (Seruya) Zdanowitz, who co-founded Chamal Har Nof, an emergency relief organization that helps displaced families, army bases, and wives of soldiers in Israel. Yael gives us a glimpse into the reality on the ground in Israel since October 7th. She describes the incredible work her organization is doing and how we can get involved. Click here for the new Modern Jewish Girl Website! Click here to donate to Chamal Har Nof(Tax receipts are available in the US, UK, Canada and Israel) 

Jenna speaks with Jackie Glaser- a life mentor, Torah teacher, and friend who guided Jenna on her Jewish journey for many years. Jackie, a former Today Show psychologist in Australia, combines her knowledge of Torah and psychology to help others gain a deep, real, and lasting clarity in dating and life. Jackie speaks about her personal dating journey, how she transitioned into coaching, the biggest obstacles in dating, client success stories, what to do if you are trying to find "the one," and much more. Click here for the new Modern Jewish Girl Website! References:Connect with JackieSouled Podcast

Jenna shares a piece of Torah from Rebbe Nachman of Breslov on the battle of light and darkness within ourselves and how we can work to overcome it so that we can truly light up the world.  She shares a personal example of a powerful mind-shift. Click here for the new Modern Jewish Girl Website!Sources:Crossing the Narrow Bridge: A Practical Guide to Rebbe Nachman’s TeachingsScrolls of Poetry by Cipi Schecter 

The terror attack in Israel on October 7th, 2023 sent shock waves through the Jewish world and beyond. The immensity of the horror and evil is almost impossible to comprehend. How do we navigate through the most intense tragedy our people have faced since the Holocaust? What is our place in this conflict? What can we do if we are not in the IDF? How do we ensure that never again means NEVER AGAIN? Jenna speaks with Cynthia Hannah, an expert on the Middle East conflict. They discuss the political, historical, and spiritual context of the Israel-Hamas war and our place in it. EDUCATE STAND WITH USDONATE ONE FAMILY FUNDTHANK ISRAELI SOLDIERSTo help displaced families and soldiers to have hot meals, please contact Jenna directly.PRAYTehillim (Psalms of David)ABOUT CYNTHIAFACEBOOK PAGEWEBSITE

Join Jenna as she speaks with Rabbi Moshe Gersht, author of the Wall Street Journal & USA Today  Bestseller, It's All The Same To Me. After performing for nearly a decade as a popular Los Angeles-based musician, Rabbi Gersht moved to Jerusalem, where he has spent the last fifteen years immersed in the wellsprings of Talmud, Chassidus, and Kabbalah. Jenna and Rabbi Gersht speak about his Jewish journey, his spiritual struggles and breakthroughs, achieving true inner peace and happiness, trusting in our dreams, the power of quiet, and much more. Enjoy!To learn more about Rabbi Moshe Gersht, click here.Click here for the new Modern Jewish Girl Website!

Jenna speaks with Emory Chabad Rebbetzin Miriam Lipskier in honor of the Lubavitcher Rebbe's 29th yahrtzeit. They speak about the Rebbe's greatness, what it is like to run a Chabad house on a college campus, how we can live out the Rebbe's legacy, and much more.  Click here for the new Modern Jewish Girl Website!

The Modern Jewish Girl Podcast has had a facelift! We hope you like it! In This Episode: Jenna discusses the theme of Jewish unity as it relates to Shavuos and our own lives. Key Takeaway: The Jewish people stood at Mt. Sinai like "one man with one heart." This is because we united in our ratzon (will) to receive the Torah for the greater good. (The heart is the place of free will, where our true inner will lies). This unity enabled us to receive the greatest blessing: the Torah. It is easier to unite and make peace with each other when we realize that we are all connected. This is not always easy, but doing so brings blessings into our lives.   Click here for the new Modern Jewish Girl Website!Sources: The Midrash Says on ShemosThe Three Festivals: Ideas and Insights of the Sfas Emes on Pesach, Shavuos, and Succos https://rabbidunner.com/like-one-man-with-one-heart/*New website & artwork by Renina Lifshitz 

Why do we count the days between Pesach and Shavuos? Jenna explores what this process teaches us about our own growth.Dedicated to Rebbetzin Sharon Shenker a"h, Shayna Lia bas Yehuda Zerach Dedicated to Lucy, Maia, and Rena Dee a"h Click here for all things Modern Jewish GirlSources:Gems from the Nesivos Shalom on Sefirat HaOmer by Rabbi Binyomin GinsbergSparks From the Fire by Rav Moshe Weinberger 

Join Jenna as she discusses why Pesach is the Rosh Hashanah of Emunah (Faith). Click here for all things Modern Jewish GirlSources: Gems from the Nesivos Shalom on Pesach by Rabbi Binyomin Ginsberg,Hadar Iokheles, Living on Purpose Women's Chabura, Nissan  Emunah Resources:Rabbi Efrem Goldberg, Living with Emunah ClassesRabbi David Ashear, Living Emunah Podcast

Mordechai refused to bow down to Haman, putting the Jews in grave danger. How could he do this? We explore this question and more to make this Purim meaningful and personal! Click here for all things Modern Jewish GirlSource: Gems from the Nesivos Shalom on Purim by Rabbi Binyomin Ginsberg 

Jenna shares a life-changing tool for reflecting on the past year and planning for the next. In doing so, she sheds light on some fundamental ideas going into Rosh Hashanah. Click here for all things Modern Jewish Girl

Jenna shares a personal story about a painting she discovered from her grandma, along with some ideas about the Hebrew month of Elul and the process of teshuva  (repentance). Click here for all things Modern Jewish GirlReferences:·      Lamed Vav, a collection of favorite stories of Rabbi Shlomo Carlebach ztz”l, p. 123·      The Psychology of Teshuvah by Rabbi Tzvi Rubin and Yosef Venokur To view the painting, visit @modernjewishgirl on Instagram 

On Shavuos, the holiday when we celebrate receiving the Torah, we read Megillas Ruth, the book of Ruth. What is the connection here?  Jenna offers an explanation and in doing so, speaks about the role of kindness in Judaism and how we can receive the gift of the Torah in our own lives.  Click here for all things Modern Jewish GirlReferences:Seed of Redemption by Rabbi Aaron Lopiansky 

This week Jenna features a friend on the Podcast, Sarah Pachter. Sarah is the author of the new book, Is it Ever Enough? A Journey Toward Joyful Living, published by Feldheim. Sarah and Jenna speak about Sarah's unique Jewish background, her career as a speaker and now writer while raising 5 kids (!) and of course, her newest book. In doing so, they uncover some insights into how we can live a bit more joyfully from a Jewish perspective. Click here for all things Modern Jewish GirlReferences:https://sarahpachterspeaks.com 

Bracha Goetz is a Harvard-educated author of 40 books that help children's souls shine and the author of a candid memoir about overcoming food addictions joyfully on her journey in Judaism. Bracha shares a bit about her work as a children's author and her Jewish journey. Jenna and Bracha discuss how we can access the true pleasures of this world and allow our souls to shine.  Click here for all things Modern Jewish GirlReferences: www.goetzbookshop.com The Five Levels of Pleasure

Jenna & Miriam discuss the ideas of shalva (serenity), self-wholeness, emotional well-being, and holistic healing from a Jewish perspective. Miriam Gitlin is a certified life coach and creator of The Shalva Shift coaching program.  She is also an artist, a wife and mother of 7 fabulous children, k”ah, former kallah (bride) teacher and marriage educator, and a writer, with two published books and over 100 stories and articles that have been printed in Binah, Hamodia, Ami, Mishpacha, and more. Miriam is passionate about helping Jewish women who are struggling with challenging situations to achieve serenity and fulfillment in their lives and relationships. Click here for all things Modern Jewish GirlReferences: https://miriamgitlin.comhttps://miriamgitlin.com/steps - The Free 5 Step Path from "Too Much" to Serenity