Today, John discusses the emotional complexities involved in breakups, including the concept of secondary loss and the importance of understanding one's emotional responses. He also explores the transformative potential of breakups, emphasizing that they can serve as catalysts for personal growth and self-discovery. Pre-order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HERE Follow John on Instagram HERE Find out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Today, John discusses how most of our definitions of love are shaped by external influences leading to a disconnection from our true selves. He also explains how redefining our definitions, through personal experiences and emotional intelligence, will help advocate for a more authentic understanding of love and relationships in our lives. Pre-order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HERE Follow John on Instagram HERE Find out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Today, John reflects on his upbringing in a family restaurant, exploring themes of generational trauma, cultural identity, and personal growth. He also emphasizes the importance of understanding one's parents' backgrounds, so they can shift towards a more empathetic and responsive approach in the current generation. Pre-order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HERE Follow John on Instagram HERE Find out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Today, John explores the dynamics of relationships through the lens of a client's story. He highlights common struggles couples face, and encourages them to co-create their relationship dynamics by moving away from traditional roles to find what works best for them. Pre-order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HERE Follow John on Instagram HERE Find out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Today, John discusses the emotional turmoil of losing not just a marriage but the life he envisioned, and how this experience led him to a path of self-discovery and personal growth. He also emphasizes the importance of understanding different types of breakups, how they require tailored approaches to healing, and more. Pre-order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HERE Follow John on Instagram HERE Find out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Today, John shares his reflections on gratitude, storytelling, and fitness. He emphasizes the importance of practicing gratitude, embracing one's life story, and discusses how his past experiences, including his divorce, have shaped his current perspective and practices. Pre-order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HERE Follow John on Instagram HERE Find out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Today, John Kim reflects on the importance of authenticity in content creation that was inspired by Kristen Bell and Dax Shepard. He also dives into self-reflection regarding his own discipline, the significance of emotional intelligence, and the need for regular self-check-ins to ensure personal growth and alignment with one's values. Pre-order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HERE Follow John on Instagram HERE Find out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Today, John reflects on childhood experiences, significant life events, and the impact of first impressions, while also discussing themes of sexual curiosity and shame. He also emphasizes the importance of exploring moments without judgment, how courage is often needed in difficult situations, and more. Pre-order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HERE Follow John on Instagram HERE Find out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Today, John talks about a recent experience at a coffee shop that triggered him. He explores navigating defensiveness in relationships, the importance of personal accountability, and the concept of situationships. Follow John on Instagram HERE Find out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Today, John shares his experience of a day falling apart and provides steps to cope with such situations. He emphasizes the importance of allowing oneself to feel the frustration and anger, reframe the situation, and find a positive mindset. Follow John on Instagram HERE Find out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Today, John shares a client’s story about a woman, who after a long, unfulfilling marriage, finds herself drawn to a man from her past. As she navigates her feelings for him, she grapples with the reality of her emotional needs, the fantasy she has built around him, and how the experience became a catalyst for her personal growth and healing. Follow John on Instagram HERE Find out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Today, John talks about his first experience using MDMA. He reflects on the emotional and physical effects of it, the highs and lows of his experiences, including the aftermath of using MDMA and the potential therapeutic benefits of psychedelics. Follow John on Instagram HERE Find out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Today, John shares a profound spiritual experience he had while driving to an event, triggered by a podcast discussion about bullying and masculinity. He reflects on his own experiences with bullying, the emotional weight of inaction, the desire to understand physical conflict, and more.  Follow John on Instagram HERE Find out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In the final episode of The Codependency Series, Vanessa explores the difference between caretaking and caregiving. She discusses the repression of feelings, needs, and wants, and the challenge of knowing and expressing them. She also delves into the fear of loss of attachment, the need for control in relationships, addresses manipulative behavior, weak boundaries, poor communication, and more. Follow Vanessa on Instagram HERE Find out more about Vanessa HERE Follow John on Instagram HERE Find out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In the second episode of The Codependency Series, Vanessa discusses various codependent tendencies and behaviors. She provides a laundry list of codependent tendencies, explains how these behaviors stem from a fear of losing attachment and a lack of trust in oneself and others, and emphasizes the importance of personal accountability and the need to develop a solid sense of self in order to overcome codependency. Follow Vanessa on Instagram HERE Find out more about Vanessa HERE Follow John on Instagram HERE Find out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In the first episode of The Codependency Series, Vanessa Bennett discusses the concept of codependency and explains that codependency is not limited to romantic relationships but extends to all types of relationships. She explores the connection between codependency and attachment, provides a quiz to help participants assess their own codependent tendencies, and more. Follow Vanessa on Instagram HERE Find out more about Vanessa HERE Follow John on Instagram HERE Find out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In the second part of the Origin Story & Life Concepts series, John discusses three key concepts for personal growth and transformation: pulling from your solid self, returning what doesn't belong to you, and connecting to parts of yourself that you have disconnected with. He shares personal anecdotes and examples to illustrate these concepts, and emphasizes the importance of taking action and executing these ideas in daily life. Follow John on Instagram HERE Find out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In the first part of the Origin Story & Life Concepts Series, John shares his personal journey of rebuilding his life after divorce and how he found his authentic self. He discusses the importance of living in solid self, emphasizes the need to listen to one's authentic voice to build a solid life container, and talks about the challenges and consequences of choosing to be true to oneself. Follow John on Instagram HERE Find out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Today, John talks about the practice of being present, the importance of setting intentions, and integrating these practices into daily life. He also discusses the power of unseen forces, reconditioning your nervous system, and the importance of injecting hope. Follow John on Instagram HERE Find out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Today, John talks about the transformative power of relationships. He explores different stages of personal development, the lessons learned from past relationships, the importance of self-reflection and growth within relationships, as well as the healing potential they offer. Follow John on Instagram HERE Find out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Today, John does a deep dive on the importance of friendships in relationships. He talks about how fulfilling certain needs in friendships are essential, and emphasizes that there's so much more to life than just our romantic relationships. Follow John on Instagram HERE Find out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Today, John does a deep dive on how the miracle of love lies in the process of working through activation, trauma, and honest conversations. He talks about the importance of seeking partners who can help us heal our wounds, the ability to create a safe space and hold capacity for others, and how healing is a byproduct of working through our issues and repairing ruptures. Follow John on Instagram HERE Find out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Today, John emphasizes the importance of giving yourself permission to revisit past events with exes, so you can gain new insights and perspectives. He also encourages listeners to be compassionate towards their past selves and to provide the support and understanding they needed but didn't receive at the time. Follow John on Instagram HERE Find out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Today, John explores the topic of the nervous system reset and its impact on our overall well-being and relationships with Jessica Maguire. They delve into the role of relationships in regulating our nervous system, how our attachment styles can influence who we choose to love, the concept of corrective experiences and how they can help rewire the nervous system. Follow John on Instagram HERE Find out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Today, John talks about how millennials are facing unique challenges due to their desire for a different life than their parents. He talks about how millennials are breaking old blueprints, investing in themselves through therapy, and have the courage and willingness to defy societal expectations that reshape the definition of adulthood. Follow John on Instagram HERE Find out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Today, John shares how his mantra shifted from 'who's coming with me?' to 'where am I going?' and the impact it had on his mindset and behavior. He also emphasizes the importance of focusing on personal growth and purpose, rather than solely searching for love. Follow John on Instagram HERE Find out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

John does a deep dive on the four attachment styles: secure, anxious, avoidant, and fearful avoidant. He also talks about how understanding our own attachment style, and that of our partner and others, is crucial for fostering healthier relationships and more. Follow John on Instagram HERE Find out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Today, John, Vanessa, and Taune explore the idea of sourcing safety within ourselves and how it affects our relationships and overall well-being.They also emphasize how building a sanctuary within is a lifelong journey that requires compassion, curiosity, and a willingness to explore our experiences, and much more. Use the discount code SANCTUARY to get $200 off of Vanessa and Tune's upcoming retreat "Finding Sanctuary ​Within: Embodied ​Awareness Retreat" September 27th-29th HERE Follow John on Instagram HERE Find out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Today, John and Meredith explore the connection between food and wellness, as well as the importance of home-cooked meals. They discuss the role of food in their lives and the connection between food and culture, and explore the emotional and nostalgic aspects of food, as well as the importance of self-care and conscious eating. Follow John on Instagram HERE Find out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Today, John discusses the importance of seeing life through new lenses and the need for inner journeys to gain new perspectives. He also explores the idea of success, the impact of relationships and community on personal growth, and how to trust oneself and dream big. Follow John on Instagram HERE Find out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Today, John reflects on the relationship he has with his mother and the dynamics that exist between them. He discusses the challenges of evolving and growing with family members and old friends, and the resistance that can arise when trying to create new tracks in these relationships. Follow John on Instagram HERE Find out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Today, John reflects on his personal journey and the sacrifices his parents made as immigrants. He shares stories of their hard work, determination, challenges, setbacks, and emphasizes the importance of embracing and sharing our own stories. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Today, John gives advice to a listener who is torn between wanting to get her family, but lacking sexual desire for her ex-husband. He explores the concept of customization in relationships and the importance of prioritizing self-connection before seeking a partner, the need to question old relationship models and create ones that feel honest, and more. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Today, John does a deep dive on marriage and explains how it has evolved and transformed, influenced by religion, societal norms, and the concept of romantic love. He talks about how marriage should be about creating a partnership that is based on choice, growth, mutual respect, and more. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Today, John gives advice on how to emotionally prepare to leave a long-term relationship. He emphasizes the importance of building a better relationship with yourself, and creating a program or structure for yourself during this transition, including having a support system, engaging in somatic experiences, setting goals, and more. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Today, John discusses the importance of looking at past memories through different lenses to gain a more accurate understanding. He also answers two listeners questions: how to know if you've done enough healing to be in a relationship? And how to accept that you and your partner may not be right for each other? Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Today, ​​John shares his personal journey of being single and finding his authentic self after going through a divorce. He emphasizes the importance of connecting to one's solid self, living a life that feels honest, the significance of having a sense of purpose before entering another relationship, and more. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Today, John shares 15 non-generic tips on how to be happy while being single which includes: creating a personal sanctuary, learning to enjoy solitude, practicing random acts of kindness, developing a daily ritual, engaging in a creative project, and much more. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Today, John answers three relationship questions: how do you know if a past relationship is worth revisiting? What holds someone back in a new relationship after a divorce? And how to deal with feeling insecure about a partner's past relationship? He discusses the need for self-work, healing after a divorce to avoid repeating unhealthy patterns in new relationships, and more. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Today, John answers three listeners' questions: 1) Should I take it personally if I saw my boyfriend's ex's nudes on his phone? 2) Is it possible to be too comfortable being single at 38? 3) What to do when we love each other on every level but are toxic when things are bad? He gives advice on each question, emphasizing the importance of healthy repair in relationships and the value of discomfort in personal growth. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Today, John explores the importance of finding joy in everyday moments and not putting too much weight on big things. He emphasizes the practice of rewiring oneself to focus on the present, appreciating the small things in life, and avoiding the trap of constantly wanting more. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Today, John discusses the importance of healing and allowing the past to die in order to create new experiences and rewire the body and mind. He also emphasizes the significance of giving oneself corrective experiences to reparent the inner child, how to create a sense of safety, and provides examples of how this can be done in relationships and everyday life. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Today, John and Vanessa discuss various topics, including permission, late-night eating habits, ADHD, switching things up in relationships, and the concept of turning curses into gifts. They also explore the idea of self-acceptance, using their unique traits as superpowers, and more. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Today, John and Vanessa discuss five signs you may be settling in your relationship. They also touch on the importance of personal growth, the impact of friends and family on relationships, overcompensating in other areas of life, subtle resentment, rationalizing mediocrity, and more. Click HERE to sign up for their next retreat August 9th-11th! Remember to use the discount code DEEPER to get $300 off! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, John answers two questions from listeners, and gives detailed advice on what they should do. What if I have feelings for someone who is now seeing someone else? Should I tell them? And how do I move on from my ex if I'm still living with them? Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, John interviews rad dads and talks about their experiences growing up with single mothers, the influence of male figures in their lives, the joys and struggles of being fathers, societal expectations and judgments surrounding parenting. They also touch on the importance of creating a safe environment for their children to take risks and learn, the difficulty of letting go of their individual identities to fully embrace fatherhood, the impact of fatherhood on relationships and personal identity, and so much more. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, John and Vanessa explore the concept of repair in relationships, and the importance of understanding each other's needs. They dive into the dynamics of communication, the balance of power in repair, and the role of self-awareness in relationships. They also discuss the significance of apologizing, the need for validation and understanding, the impact of past hurts on current dynamics, and much more. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, John and Vanessa answer questions from couples, and discuss the importance of open communication and intentionality in relationships. They emphasize the need for couples to understand each other's love languages, make intentional efforts to meet each other's needs, using curiosity to navigate conflicts / understand each other's perspectives, and so much more. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, John and Vanessa discuss the value of fighting in relationships and how to fight without actually fighting. They emphasize the importance of understanding before trying to be understood, shifting from a combative approach to a more empathetic one, being aware of one's own triggers / reactions during conflicts, and so much more. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, John and Vanessa host a workshop for couples, and read off a list of twelve principles every healthy relationship must have. They talk about the importance of protecting the safety and security of the relationship, transparency and communication, supporting each other in distress, never threatening the existence of the relationship, protecting each other from harmful behaviors, and so much more. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, John discusses the importance of investing in someone who has a life and the ability to rebuild it. He emphasizes that when two people have their own lives and passions, it creates a healthy boundary and stabilizes the relationship. He also highlights the significance of resilience, growth mindset, personal development in building a fulfilling life, and much more. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, John discusses the importance of finding someone with a fire in their belly when investing in a relationship. He emphasizes the need to know where you're going before asking who's going with you, and shares his personal journey of self-discovery and finding purpose. He also highlights the significance of having a passion, but to be cautious about dating someone who is solely focused on work and lacks balance in other areas of their life. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, John discusses the importance of taking ownership in relationships. He explains that someone who takes ownership is willing to accept responsibility for their actions and behaviors, rather than being defensive or blaming others. He shares personal experiences and client stories to illustrate how defensiveness can poison a relationship, and emphasizes that taking ownership is a key ingredient in resolving conflict and building trust. He ends with encouraging his listeners to reflect on their own defensiveness and patterns of behavior in arguments, and to consider the role of ownership in their relationships. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, John discusses the process of turning a breakup into a breakthrough. He emphasizes the importance of reframing the story of a breakup, swimming past the breakers, healing emotional triggers, breaking up with oneself, letting go of attachments, and embracing rebirth. He shares personal insights and practical advice for navigating the emotional journey of a breakup and using it as a catalyst for personal growth. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, John brings on Shaun (The Love Drive) to talk about how hurtful ghosting can be, what "mommy issues" look like in relationships, whether long distance relationships can work or not, the inability to say "I love you," why you keep attracting unavailable partners, if watching pornography is cheating, and more. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, John reflects things he's currently struggling with. He shares insights on finding joy in simple moments, the importance of self-awareness and self-acceptance, the struggle with sleep and the impact it has on daily life, challenges of parenting and the need for self-compassion, exploring and expanding sexuality later in life, the impact of career-related stress, the need for patience and trust in the process, and much more. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, John discusses the four pillars of a healthy relationship, embracing the realities of a relationship, and the beauty in the struggle. He emphasizes the importance of chemistry, maintaining separate identities, aligning on a common vision, and building a connection in a relationship. He also highlights the significance of navigating challenges, learning from failed relationships, and finding beauty in the day-to-day struggles of a relationship. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, John reads a story, "My P*ssy Knows Things," that explores the impact of past relationships on present behavior and emotional well-being. He also dives into the concept of grieving the loss of a relationship, the importance of accepting and processing associated emotions, being resistant to therapy, the transformation that occurs when individuals confront their past, and more. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, John talks to Shaun Galanos (The Love Drive) about various topics including fear of missing out (FOMO), polyamory, dating rejection, and attachment styles. They highlight the importance of communication, emotional regulation, coping with dating rejection, and redefining what rejection means. They also touch on the current obsession with attachment styles and the danger of using labels and judgments. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, John debriefs with Sarah and Meredith about the most recent TAT retreat on the drive home. They all talk about what their role is, their revelations running the retreats, the lessons they've learned in each retreat, the importance of breath work, how therapeutic cooking is, how to calm down your nervous system, and much more. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, John talks about love. He defines what his definition of love used to be, and what it is now. He also talks about ways to know if you love someone, feelings to look for, how real love is about embracing conflict - not jumping ship the second things start to feel hard, and much more. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, John interviews Todd Baratz, a male sex therapist, about love and intimacy. They discuss the concept of 'losing your mind' when falling in love and the challenges that arise in relationships. They also touch on the importance of therapy and how childhood experiences shape our relationships. Todd shares his personal journey about how he became a therapist, talks about the changing attitudes towards sex and the stigma that still exists, emphasizes the importance of understanding one's own trauma and how it can impact relationships, and promotes his book 'How to Love Someone Without Losing Your Mind.' Todd Baratz is a renowned psychotherapist and sex therapist whose innovative approach to mental health and relationships has established him as a leading figure in his field. In addition to his clinical practice, Baratz is a prolific writer and speaker. His insights are regularly featured in various media outlets, where he discusses topics ranging from romantic relationships to individual mental wellness. He lives in New York City and Los Angeles. Learn more on Instagram under his handle YourDiagnonsense. Follow Todd on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/yourdiagnonsense/?hl=en Check out his website: https://www.toddsbaratz.com/ Buy Todd's book: 'How to Love Someone Without Losing Your Mind.' https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/723331/how-to-love-someone-without-losing-your-mind-by-todd-baratz-lmhc/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, John starts with a list of "Johnisms" before answering listener's questions. John gives advice on what to do if you have feelings for a friend, how to rebuild trust in a marriage after it's been broken, and how to handle finding your significant other's secret Tinder account. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this bonus episode, John has an encouraging message for those going through a break up. He opens up about break ups he's been through, lessons he's learned from each, and gives tips on how to break through your break up if you're currently going through one. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, John talks about poor habits, how we all have them, and how taking small steps towards breaking the habits is more successful than stopping the habits cold turkey. He also talks about being depressed when life feels "boring," and how to that leads to feelings of wanting to escape. He dives into how those feelings can be linked more to wanting to run away from yourself rather than just needing a break, and how to tell the difference. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, John talks about how doing a life audit on yourself will help strengthen the relationship you have with your partner and others. He explains how the more you focus on yourself, the more you'll be able to bring to the table with others, and walks through the process of what giving yourself a life audit looks like.

In this episode, John brings on Dr. MC McDonald to discuss the concept of awe and the science behind joy. They explore the importance of finding joy in small moments, activating the hope circuit in the brain, and also debunk some misconceptions about what brings joy, such as affirmations. They emphasize that joy is not a silly or frivolous emotion, but a hardcore and gritty force. The conversation also touches on topics like trauma, imagination, flow states, the power of finding beauty in contrast, and accepting people for who they are. You can buy MC's book, Unbroken, HERE Follow MC on Instagram HERE  or TikTok HERE

In this episode, John answers a listener's question after they've emailed him for advice about their current relationship. He dives into avoidant attachment styles, and gives advice on how to know if you're attachment style is to blame for feeling "suffocated" in the relationship, or if you're only feeling this way because deep down you know that your partner isn't right for you.

In this episode, John Kim and Luci Lampe discuss the concept of conscious self-pleasure and its impact on personal growth and relationships. They explore how shame and societal conditioning can hinder sexual expression and the importance of approaching self-pleasure with presence and mindfulness. They also touch on the differences between male and female sexual energy and the potential for sexual practices to expand into other areas of life. Luci Lampe is a mom of 4, trauma-informed sex & relationship coach, award-winning singer and songwriter, commercial actress & print model, and 3X author. Her writing has been featured on the Huffington Post, Forbes, Entrepreneur.com, CBS, and Fox. After overcoming an autoimmune disorder and embarking on a deep healing journey and spiritual awakening during her former husband’s 2-year disability and depression, Luci’s work shifted deeper into the realms of erotic liberation and spiritual reclamation. Now, after her journey of conscious uncoupling after a 17-year marriage, she  brings a new depth to the message of open-Hearted living + relating for couples, women, and men. You can find out more about Luci HERE or follow her on Instagram HERE

In this episode, John explores the importance of redefining our definitions of love as we grow and change. He shares his old definition of love from his twenties and contrasts it with his current definition. He also highlights how our definitions of love are always changing, the challenges and beauty of love, and the importance of aligning definitions with our partners.

In this episode, John talks about how to express your needs, and show up in your relationship when you're fighting. He discusses the importance of knowing what is healthy vs unhealthy ways of showing up during conflict, and gives examples of what each looks like.

In this episode, John records a live podcast in his TAT Circle community where he answers listeners' questions, and does a deep dive on attachment styles. He talks about the honeymoon phase of a relationship, what's really happening when you feel like your attachment is being activated, and how to tell if it's your attachment style that's being triggered, or the relationship isn't right for you. If you want to hop into John's next live podcast episode, click HERE to join TAT Circle.

In this episode, John talks about thought patterns, and why we find ourselves stuck in negative thought patterns more than positive ones. He dives into different steps to take when you find yourself spiraling, and how to practice wanting things loosely.

In this episode, John and Vanessa talk about recovering from codependency. They talk about the steps you need to take, such as having awareness and setting boundaries, what recovering from codependency really looks like in your life and relationships, and how recovery doesn't happen overnight.

In this episode, John focuses on cheating and infidelity. He discusses common reasons why people cheat, including anger or revenge, falling out of love, feeling unappreciated, lack of commitment, sexual desire, and situational opportunity. He emphasizes the importance of taking ownership, processing emotions, drawing boundaries, seeking therapy, and ultimately growing from the experience.

In this episode, John does a deep dive on three different ways you can elevate your partner and relationship by being curious about your partner and their experiences, championing their story, and asking them how you can work on fulfilling their needs.

In the final episode of the Red & Green Flags in Dating series, John talks about how important having capacity for yourself and others is in your relationships. He defines what capacity is, gives examples and what it looks like in action, and explains the difference between having a healthy vs an unhealthy amount of capacity in dating and relationships.

In this episode, John does a deep dive on the second C of Red & Green Flags in Dating, communication. John discusses what healthy and unhealthy communication looks like in relationships, and what red flags you should look for that shows someone does not communicate well in the early stages of dating.

In the first episode of a three part series, Red & Green Flags in Dating, John breaks down the three most important C's in dating: connection, communication, and capacity. He defines what connection is, gives examples of what healthy and unhealthy forms of connection are, and discusses red and green flags to look for in connection when you're first dating someone.

In this episode, John talks about how to be open to love after your heart has been broken. He dives into how practicing opening your heart up in your relationships is an exercise you need to practice daily in order to create the opportunity to heal and grow from your break up. He also talks about forgiveness, treating yourself, closure, finding people who understand you, and much more.

In this episode, John reflects on his 51st birthday and shares his revelations and insights about life. He discusses the importance of self-reflection, accepting oneself as a 'B-side', the value of movement and fitness, the power of asking for what you want, the significance of friendships, the importance of finding peace, the process of closure, the cumulative nature of life, and the need to let go of what no longer serves us.

In this episode, John answers a listener's question, and discusses the reasons why people cheat, including emotional disconnection, curiosity, and unhappiness within oneself. He also addresses the issue of ghosting, the fear of having difficult conversations, the importance of exploring patterns in relationships and understanding one's contribution to them, and provides insights on creating a safe space for partners to work through infidelity and rebuilding trust.

In this episode, John explores the different dimensions of intimacy, including emotional, spiritual, mental, passionate, physical, and energy intimacy. He emphasizes the importance of creating a safe space for emotional vulnerability, engaging in meaningful conversations, and practicing empathy and compassion. He also highlights the significance of continuous self-examination and personal growth in building deep, true intimacy, and provides practical suggestions for cultivating a deeper level of love and intimacy in relationships.

In this episode, John brings on Mark Groves to discuss his book 'Liberated Love' and the journey of relationships. Mark shares his personal experience of going through Relationship 1.0 and 2.0 with his partner. They discuss codependency, the importance of self-erasure in relationships, the role of the nervous system in relationships, and the signs of losing oneself in a relationship. They also touch on the considerations in deciding whether to stay or go in a relationship, the hierarchy of ideal relationship structures, the importance of being well-resourced in relationships, the significance of freedom in relationships, and much more. Mark Groves is a Human Connection Specialist, founder of Create the Love, host of the Mark Groves Podcast and co-author of Liberated Love. Mark's work bridges the academic and the human, inviting people to explore the good, the bad, the downright ugly, and the beautiful sides of connection. Preorder Liberated Love here! Mark's Website: createthelove.com + markgroves.com Mark's Podcast: markgrovespodcast.com Mark's Instagram: @createthelove

In this episode, John gives us a list of unhealthy behaviors we mistake for love in dating and our relationships. He talks about why we're attracted to unhealthy behavior, and does a deep dive on how we might exhibit some of these behaviors in current or past relationships without realizing it.

In this episode, John talks about the challenges people face when they stay in a relationship after infidelity. He encourages people who are in this situation to ask themselves a very important question: why are you staying in this relationship? Especially when there hasn't been any growth, or change on the other person's end.

In this episode, John talks to James Rhee about his journey as a Korean American and experiences in leadership. He shares the story of the red helicopter and how it impacted his perspective on kindness. James explains his philosophy of kindness in math, how he designs systems that reward true agency, the importance of joy and finding contentment in everyday moments, the significance of championing Asian-Americans in media, and the positive changes happening in representation.  James Rhee is a high school teacher turned private equity investor and CEO. James’ leadership story first grabbed global attention during his unlikely seven-year tenure as Chairman and first-time CEO at fashion retailer Ashley Stewart. After his radical approach fueled a transcendent comeback story for the company, James concretized his leadership philosophy—kindness plus a little math—in the form of red helicopter, his media-education platform. A graduate of Harvard Law School, he is now a Senior Lecturer at Duke Law School and MIT Sloan School of Management and the Johnson Chair of Entrepreneurship at Howard University—the first joint appointment of its kind in history. His TED Talk and Dare to Lead interview with Brené Brown have captured the imagination of millions. He is the author of red helicopter (HarperOne; April 9, 2024).

In this exciting episode, John hosts a panel with the speakers for the upcoming In Bloom: A Love and Relationships Summit. They talk about everything love and relationships including artificial intimacy, sex as a cultural and relational issue, emotional availability, and the practice of interdependence. The conversation also touches on communication in relationships, the challenges of navigating different attachment styles, the importance of understanding and empathy in relationships, rather than labeling and blaming, and much more. In Bloom: A Love and Relationships Summit April 12-14, 2024 Fairmont Waterfront Hotel, Vancouver BC (virtual attendance is also available) Featuring Dr. Gabor Maté, Rae Maté, Logan Ury, Dené Logan, Shaun Galanos, Dr. Jess O'Reilly, Dr. Jody Carrington, John Kim, Vanessa Bennett, Todd Baratz, and Sophie Grégoire Trudeau. Take your relational skills to the next level. Real Love Ready is putting you in the room with your favourite relationship experts—and the most trusted names in love—for a weekend of learning, growth, and community. Use the discount code INBLOOM25 for 25% off in person and virtual. SIGN UP HERE

In this episode, John shares his thoughts on the twenty things every man should have or have done by age forty. He covers a wide range of topics including: finding purpose, developing personal style, maintaining good credit, experiencing heartbreak, expressing love for other men, setting boundaries with parents, saving and investing, practicing forgiveness, experiencing rebirth, and much more.

In this episode, John talks with Keila and Joe about their relationship history, communication issues, and recent conflicts. They also talk about the baggage from past relationships, the challenges of feeling safe and secure, external stressors, different social lives, and the pressure to be everything for each other. They also discuss the impact of living together and the pressure of time and fertility. John ends this episode with a little behind the scenes commentary on the reality of recording the real couples sessions episodes.

In this episode, John talks about how complicated the aftermath of cheating is. He talks about the importance of not taking things personally, forgiveness if you want to repair the relationship, why people cheat, how to heal if you've been cheated on, and more.

In this episode, John reflects on his personal growth journey through social media and the power of documenting one's story. He shares how he found his voice and embodied his potential through podcasting. John also discusses the importance of building a local community and serving others. He explores themes of love, relationships, acceptance, and the need to surrender and let go. He also emphasizes the significance of dreaming and staying curious throughout life.

In this episode, John talks to Annie Undone about monogamous vs non-monogamous relationships. They talks about what non-monogamy is, what is looks like in a romantic relationship, what judgements surround non-monogamy, debunk myths about non-monogamy, how to be in a healthy non-monogamous relationships, and more. Annie is an artist and writer working to normalize diverse relationship styles and varied sexual experiences. She is a queer, kinky, relationship anarchist on a mission to incite individuals to experience personal revolutions. Annie has explored a variety of relationship styles, and is currently continuing her journey of self discovery. She has wide experiential knowledge in non-monogamy, kink, and exploring healthy relationship dynamics.  You can learn more about Annie and her services HERE or follow her on Instagram HERE

In this episode, John answers all of Vanity Fair's Proust questions, and does a deep with each answer. He shares vulnerable moments of his life by talking about his childhood, happiness and fears, his current state of mind and struggles, occasional lies he's told, and more.

In this episode, John brings back the hosts of "Guys We Fucked," Corinne Fisher and Christina Hutchinson, to discuss the lasting influence of childhood on adult life, emotional vampires, the necessity of solitude for creativity, and their positive outlook on aging. They delve into how childhood experiences shape self-worth and emotional health, with personal anecdotes about family dynamics. The importance of alone time is emphasized as crucial for meeting creative demands, with each host sharing their strategies for fostering inspiration. The episode concludes on an uplifting note, with the hosts expressing excitement for the wisdom and freedom that come with reaching their 40s and 50s, challenging societal fears around aging. You can find out more about Guys We F*cked HERE

In this emotional episode, John and his retreat members get vulnerable and share their experience attending March's Miserable F*cks Retreat. They dive into why they decided to attend this month's retreat, what fears they have going through with experience with strangers, what feelings were brought up that they had to work through, and much more.

In this episode, John talks with Zach Watson to discuss the topic of mental load and domestic labor distribution. They explore the challenges and controversies surrounding this topic, particularly in relation to men's responses. They explore the role of childhood experiences in shaping perspectives, the need for understanding and empathy, the challenges faced by breadwinners, and the concept of the default parent. They also touch upon the influence of a capitalist society on the perception of value, and conclude with a discussion on the role of humor and playfulness in changing the conversation among men and the struggle with ego and humility in personal growth. You can book a call with Zachary HERE or follow him on Instagram HERE

In this episode, John does a live podcast with Nicole LePera (The Holistic Psychologist) where they talk about breaking old patterns and generational cycles, how to open your heart to yourself and others, what manifestation really is, getting in touch with our nervous systems, finding peace within ourselves, having empathy for our parents, masculine and feminine energy, Nicole's new book "How To Be The Love You Seek," and more. You can purchase Nicole's book here: https://howtobetheloveyouseek.com/Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John discusses the importance of embracing singleness as a time for personal growth and self-discovery. He challenges the notion that everything in life needs to be figured out and emphasizes the value of exploring oneself during periods of singleness. He also highlights the misconception that happiness is dependent on being in a relationship and encourages individuals to redefine their concepts of singlehood. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John talks with Colette, a professional dominatrix, and discusses her work and the world of BDSM. She shares her definition of being a dominatrix and explains that her clients come to her to explore surrender and alternative sexuality. Colette also shares her immigrant story and how her upbringing influenced her career choice. She also discusses her journey into the dominatrix world, the evolution of her work, the difference between her professional and personal life and how she craves a different dynamic in her personal relationships. Colette Pervtte is an Educatrix. Colette has been a professional Dominatrix for 19 years. She also holds a PhD in Education from UC Berkeley, where her research focuses on misconceptions and conceptual change. Through her teaching and writing, she dispels misconceptions about kink, sexwork and alternative sexuality.   Colette is the Creatrix of MistressClass, a Dominatrix training course where she guides women to find and cultivate their personal power by teaching the art and practice of FemDom and BDSM through her alchemical and spiritual approach to kink. She has guided and trained hundreds of women and femmes to become the Dominatrix of their vision.   Colette's Spring MistressClass begins on March 24th. MistressClass - https://www.pervette.com/mistressclass/  Colette's Website - https://www.pervette.com  Colette's IG - https://www.instagram.com/colettepervette/Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John introduces his series where he reads excerpts from his book 'Single On Purpose' and provides commentary. He explains that the goal of doing this series is a commitment to engage with his audience and not 'sneak out the back' like he tends to do. John shares his personal experiences with loneliness, rejection, and losing oneself in relationships.Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John and Vanessa talk about how codependency impacts our relationships with others along with the relationship we have with our selves. They talk about what codependency and enmeshment looks like in our relationships, how attachment styles come into play, and how they have healed from their codependency issues with each other and others. Want to dive more into these topics as a couple? John and Vanessa are hosting an in person couples retreat in Idyllwild, CA April 19-21st! You can find more information and sign up here: https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/c/inmiy-retreat-mainfeed/Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John talks about how love evolves and changes as we grow older. In our 20s and 30s, love is about late-night conversations, romantic gestures, and finding self-value in another person. In our 40s and 50s, love becomes more about creating a shared space, being non-possessive, and prioritizing each other's well-being. He also talks about how the millennial generation is redefining love and relationships, prioritizing honesty, growth, and individuality.Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

On this real couples session, Brianna and Tanner come back to discuss the changes in their drinking habits and the positive impact it has had on their relationship. They express their desire to work on individual goals, such as better communication and overcoming fear. They explore the importance of taking a beat before responding and understanding each other's triggers. They also discuss the weight of not wanting to screw up the relationship and the fear of losing each other.Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John talks to Sarah Baldwin about the importance of regulating the nervous system and the nuances of regulation. They explore how functional fitness and various daily activities can help regulate the nervous system. Sarah shares her personal journey of healing from complex trauma and how it led her to become a trauma-informed therapist. She also discusses the effects of trauma on the nervous system and emphasizes the importance of somatic work for trauma resolution, and gives practical tips for regulating the nervous system and highlights the role of safety and intimacy in sexual experiences. Sarah's IG handle: @sarahbcoachingWebsite: https://www.sarahbaldwincoaching.com/worktogetherYou Make Sense Waitlist: https://programs.sarahbaldwincoaching.com/you-make-sense-waitlistRoughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John and Vanessa discuss various aspects of relationships and provide insights and strategies for building healthier connections. They draw from their personal experiences as licensed marriage and family therapists and individuals who have been in multiple relationships. They also cover topics such as codependency, loving without past baggage, attachment styles and love languages, fighting without fighting, and creating new experiences in relationships. Want to dive more into these topics as a couple? John and Vanessa are hosting an in person couples retreat in Idyllwild, CA April 19-21st! You can find more information and sign up here: https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/c/inmiy-retreat-mainfeed/Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John talks about how how our hearts are always competing with our brains (logic). He also dives into how important living a heart centered life is, what that looks like in your every day, how to start living a heart centered life, and why you should stop holding in your pee (stop settling for discomfort).This episode is brought to you by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/angry and start building a better relationship with yourself.Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this real couples session, Brianna and Tanner discuss their communication challenges and the activations of their childhood wounds in their relationship. They explore how Brianna struggles with feeling heard and Tanner struggles with effectively communicating his feelings. John highlights the importance of taking ownership, creating a safe space, and self-soothing in order to overcome these challenges and build a stronger relationship.This episode is brought to you by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/angry and start building a better relationship with yourself.Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John shares his priority list for 2024. He discusses the importance of living on a higher frequency and practicing positive thinking. He emphasizes the power of belief and the impact it can have on achieving personal goals, the significance of taking a beat before responding, continuously proving oneself wrong, the importance of getting stronger, seeking more adventures, and loving one's partner in new ways. This episode is brought to you by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/angry and start building a better relationship with yourself.Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this real couples session, John speaks with Bri about her on-and-off relationship with Doug. They discuss their trauma bond, the challenges they faced, and the possibility of giving their relationship another chance. Bri expresses her desire to heal past hurts, build trust, and set boundaries. John emphasizes the importance of open communication, understanding triggers, and creating new experiences to lay the foundation for a healthy relationship. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John talks about negative thinking and gives examples of the different types of cognitive distortions everyone has, or have experienced. He also talks about his own experience with them, and gives tips on how to catch yourself spiraling down certain cognitive distortions and what to do to stop the spiral. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John brings on his old friend, Sam Louie, to discuss the topic of shame. They share their personal experiences growing up with shame, including racial discrimination and cultural differences. They also discuss the impact of early exposure to pornography, the coping mechanisms they developed, the role of shame in their adult lives, particularly in the context of divorce, and discuss strategies for working through shame and the importance of sharing one's story.   Sam Louie has a private practice specializing in multicultural issues, trauma, and sex addiction.  Prior to receiving his Master’s degree in Clinical Psychology, Sam worked more than twelve years as a television journalist where he researched, produced, and reported on a number of stories related to psychotherapy, relationships, and recovery. He garnered two Los Angeles Emmy Awards. Sam is the author is Author of: Passport to Shame: From Asian Immigrant to American Addict and Spoken not Broken: Healing through Poetry. You can find out more about Sam by following him on Instagram @SamLouieTherapyRoughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this real couples session, John explores the challenges faced by a couple in their marriage and their journey towards personal growth and rebuilding their relationship. The couple discusses their struggles with work-life balance, the impact of cultural and religious expectations, and the need for self-discovery and self-love. They share their experiences of moving back and forth between countries, the importance of taking time apart, and the process of reevaluating priorities. John highlights the significance of communication, supporting each other's growth, and finding individual happiness in order to create a healthier and more fulfilling relationship.Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John and Vanessa do a deep dive on codependency. They define it, give examples on what it looks like in relationships, talk about how they struggle with codependency in their own and previous relationships, and end with a homework assignment for their listeners. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John interviews Alexis, the host of the podcast 'Do You F*ckin' Mind?' They discuss Alexis' journey of personal growth and overcoming heartbreak. Alexis shares her struggle to switch off and find peace in her daily life. She also emphasizes the importance of managing social media use, being intentional about where we place our attention, and highlights the value of purpose, encouraging listeners to find small ways to make a positive impact on others. You can find more information about Alexis on her website: https://www.dyfmpod.com or follow her podcast on Instagram @dyfmpodcastRoughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this couples session, John talks with Laura and Martin have been together for 22 years and have faced multiple betrayals and traumas in their relationship. Laura has been unfaithful on multiple occasions, while Martin had his own secret infidelity. The couple has spent years in secrecy and deception, leading to a lack of trust and respect. They are now working on rebuilding their relationship and changing their behavior. Laura emphasizes the need for Martin to prioritize showing respect and kindness, while Martin acknowledges his past mistakes and commits to improving his actions. Both partners are focused on personal growth and self-care as they strive to create a healthier and more fulfilling relationship.Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John answers and gives advice on two listeners' questions: how do I stop being sexually mad at my partner, and should I tell her before we go on vacation? And how do I let go of a break up that I can't get over?Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John talks about how you can bring more to the table in your relationships by knowing what your love patterns are. He also talks about how loving with our past creates unhealthy behaviors and can subtly destroy our relationships, how to resolve conflict, and whether you're holding or grabbing in your relationship. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this powerful conversation, John does a live couples session with Jenny and Sean and discuss the challenges they face as parents and partners. They explore topics such as struggling with identity and grief, balancing work and parenting, communicating and resolving conflict, past trauma and insecurities, the impact of previous relationships, the desire for appreciation and validation, recognizing each other's needs, improving communication and understanding, feeling invisible and overlooked, seeking acknowledgment and respect, creating space and showing appreciation, and prioritizing each other.Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John talks to Tanya Antonio, and they discuss the process of letting go of a passion and finding new paths in life. They also give advice on how to cope with a breakup, building chemistry in relationships, the importance of embracing new experiences, and being open to unexpected opportunities. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John and Dr. MC McDonald talk about how to heal from your trauma by trying to find all of the tiny little joys in your life. They give examples of what that looks like, and talk about how looking for the positive in our every day lives can help rewire our brain and heal from our traumatic experiences. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John does a half century life check in inside of a sauna. He talks about the evolution of social media, how far he's come since writing his first Angry Therapist blog post titled "My F*cking Feelings," how therapeutic writing on Tumblr was for him, what he's currently struggling with, and how he continues to share his truth and state without any edits. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John and Vanessa record a podcast episode on the go. They talk about how emotional immaturity and codependency are connected, what adult children of emotionally immature parents look like, and how to be aware of when you're being emotionally immature. They give real examples of how it shows up, and how to work through it, so it doesn't affect your relationships. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John and MC host a live workshop to talk about what trauma looks like in our relationships. They also talk about why it's so hard to leave a trauma bond, and how much shame someone can feel for not leaving sooner. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John explores the importance of using singlehood as a chance to grow and develop yourself. He also highlights the dangers of running away from your pain, and filling it with distractions and other relationships which will "calcify" your growth.Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John and Vanessa discuss personal growth, the cost of living, supporting each other's growth, why people cheat in relationships, and what's happening behind closed doors in sexless marriages. They emphasize the importance of championing each other's stories and working through challenges in relationships, and conclude with reflections on the past year and the hope for new beginnings in the future.Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John and Dr. MC McDonald redefine trauma. They talk about what trauma is and isn't, examples of different types of trauma, how trauma rewires the brain, and what steps you can take to start healing your trauma. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John and Dr. MC McDonald do a deep dive on how to heal from trauma and break free from trauma bonds. They talk about what healing looks like, how it doesn't happen overnight, examples of what healing looks like, how to let go of someone you are trauma bonded with, the difference between a "safe" and "unsafe" person, and more. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John and Dr. MC McDonald talk about why people "bond through trauma." They also talk about trauma bonds, what they are, how to heal from them, and debunk a lot of myths and false information that's being spread about them on social media. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John discusses the concept of letting go and embracing change. He emphasizes the importance of not holding onto things that don't belong to us, such as parental expectations or grudges from the past. He highlights the significance of being present, engaging in life, taking action instead of "trusting the universe," and connecting with one's true self. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John reads an old letter he wrote to his future self. The letter contains reminders about what his past has taught him, how important practicing gratitude is, the difference between chasing your goals and pursing your goals, how to dream big, and more. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this powerful and emotional episode, all eight men who attended John's most recent Miserable F*cks Retreat get extremely vulnerable about what revelations they had about themselves and their lives during the retreat. They all open up about their struggles with vulnerability, current relationships, divorce, loss of loved ones, addiction / getting sober, being homeless, letting go of shame, past behaviors that no longer align with them, and more. John's next Miserable F*cks Retreat is COED and will be March 1-3. Please visit https://www.tatretreats.com to sign up, or find for more information.Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John and Jeff discuss the concept of "indigenous brothers," which refers to two friends who have slept with the same person. They explore different scenarios and experiences related to this concept, highlighting both positive and toxic aspects. They also discuss the fear of being judged for past actions and the importance of open communication and mutual respect in friendships. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John Kim and Vanessa Bennett discuss the topic of trust and self-worth in relationships. They explore the connection between insecurity and trust issues, emphasizing the importance of developing a strong relationship with oneself. They also discuss the role of external validation and the process of building self-worth through personal experiences and setting boundaries. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John Kim and Damona Hoffman discuss the concept of fairy tales and how it relates to love, dating, and relationships. They explore the myths and beliefs that often hold people back from finding true compatibility. They also discuss the role of self-help jargon, the rise of emotional intelligence in younger men, and the integration of best practices in dating. You can pre order Damona's book here: https://damonahoffman.com/f-the-fairy-tale/ and follow her on Instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/damonahoffman/?hl=enRoughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John talks about a journaling exercise he's been doing with his private TAT Circle community: for four days, journal about the worst thing that has ever happened to you. He talks about the revelations he and his members had during this challenge, how much time and energy we spend focusing on the future, how most people find issues in similar areas in their life, and how beneficial re-shifting your energy can be. You can sign up, or find out more about John' TAT Circle community here: https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/homeRoughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John talks with Francesca Sipma of Mastry about hypnobreathwork. They talk about how you can use hypnobreathwork to heal your relationships with your partner and others, heal your past relationship traumas, visualizing your dreams or discovering your purpose, and practicing hypnobreathwork as a couple and how that can heal issues you have with each other, and more. Francesca is a certified breathwork coach and hypnotherapist based in San Diego, CA. Helping others come into alignment with their highest selves and live more meaningful lives of purpose and impact. You can find more about Francesca on her website: https://francescasipma.comRoughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John sits down with the host of "Do The Work" podcast, Sabrina Zohan, and talk about attachment styles, healing from expired relationships, unhealthy childhoods, how different dating men is in New York and Los Angeles, catalyst life moments, and more. You can find out more about Sabrina and her work here: https://stan.store/sabrinazoharRoughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John talks about toxic relationships: what are signs of a toxic relationship? How do you leave a toxic relationship? Why do you keep finding yourself in toxic relationships? How to heal from toxic relationships? And more. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John talks about the four stages of a relationship, why they're important to know when you're dating someone, and what to do in each stage when they come. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John talks about having needs in our relationships. What are our needs? How much of our needs are on us? How much are on our partners or others? How can we fulfill and ask for our needs to be met? Are my needs too much? And more.Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John talks with the hosts of the "Guys We F*cked" podcast, Corinne Fisher and Krystyna Hutchinson. They talk about healthy and unhealthy childhoods, relationships, trauma bonds, the voices in our heads, and more. Krystyna is a regular in the New York City stand-up scene and has performed in clubs, colleges, bars, basements, laundromats and sushi restaurants all over the country. She is half of the comedy duo, Sorry About Last Night, with fellow stand-up, Corinne Fisher. Together, they have produced a myriad of hit stand-up shows in New York City and Los Angeles, including selling out the Main Room at The Comedy Store, and wrote and starred in a two woman self-titled show at The Upright Citizens Brigade Theater. Corinne Fisher is a stand-up comedian, author, and director based in NYC. She co-created and co-hosts the internationally known podcast Guys We Fcked: The Anti Slut-Shaming Podcast with Krystyna Hutchinson and also hosts Without A Country podcast, a news show aiming to deliver truth without political bias. She and Hutchinson also co-authored the book “Fcked: Being Sexually Explorative and Self-Confident in a World That’s Screwed”. Most recently, Corinne directed the duo’s debut comedy special “Our Special Day” which is available for free on the Guys We Fcked YouTube channel. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John and Vanessa talk about the struggles of parenting in today's day and age. They also talk about how to keep your relationship/ marriage "spicy" after having kids, and have a healthy social life and identity outside of your children. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

On this episode, John talks with Richard Ori (SpiritualQuest) about the science behind saunas and salt rocks. How it impacts hormones and can help change your state - from chase to attract. Learn how saunas can help reposition you.  Both Richard and John have personal stories of living in Los Angeles in their twenties and thirties, in a low frequency and being “miserable f*cks.”  They share how they pulled themselves out of that state, and now continue to with saunas. Interested in purchasing a sauna? Use the code JOHN (all caps) to get a discount on any sauna at https://www.spiritualquest.comRoughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John talks about uncertainty and how to handle the anxiety of "not knowing" what's going to happen. He also talks about attracting vs chasing, and shares his own personal stories about training his nervous system to be okay with not knowing what's going to come, and trust that everything will work out as it should.Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John talks with his partner, Vanessa Bennett, about their relationship and recent engagement. They both do a deep dive on relationship stereotypes, and how they both have redefined what love and relationships mean to them. They also talk about their past struggles, fears, feelings of doubts, and how they pushed through the breakers and stayed together when things felt tough. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John talks about break ups, being heart broken, and finding closure within yourself instead of seeking it from someone else. He also talks about engaging in new experiences, so you don't repeat past hurts and how to own your story and everything that has happened to you to feel more powerful. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John talks about alignment, signs you're not aligned with yourself and you life, and how to realign yourself by asking yourself and going deeper with these personal questions: are you expanding, or constricting yourself? Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John sits down with break up expert, Amy Chan, to talk everything about break ups. Why they happen, how to heal, what lessons to learn from them, how to move on, and more. Amy Chan is the Founder of Renew Breakup Bootcamp, a retreat that takes a scientific and spiritual approach to heal the heart. The Observer calls her  "A relationship expert whose work is like that of a scientific Carrie Bradshaw". She's the author of the book, Breakup Bootcamp - The Science of Rewiring Your Heart, which was featured in the New York Times and just launched The Breakup Bootcamp podcast. You can find Amy's website here: www.renewbreakupbootcamp.com Her Instagram: www.instagram.com/missamychan Her book:  https://amzn.to/3gJOnJi  and her Break Up Bootcamp Podcast here: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/breakup-bootcamp/id1706381480 Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John talks about what to do when your therapy sessions don't feel like they're going anywhere, and how to do the work with your therapist to prevent your therapy from stalling. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John and Dr. MC talk about trauma bonds and how to break from them. They break down what they truly mean, how they are formed, and how to rewire yourself to create new love tracks. Sign up for John and MC's video course, "Breaking Free From Trauma Bonds" here: https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/checkout/trauma-video-course Use the discount code TRAUMABOND to get 50% off. You can find MC on her website: https://alchemycoaching.life/mc-mcdonald-phd or her Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mc.phd/Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John invites his long time friend over for a raw conversation about growing up with a single mom, how upbringing impacts relationships, definitions of man, and “cum clarity.” Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John talks about what to do when everything in your life feels like it's falling apart. He also opens up about his own struggles and crisis he's currently going through to show that not everyone has it all together, and things falling apart is a part of the human experience. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John does a feelings check-in. He talks about aging, struggling with fight or flight, feeling uneasy with safety and stableness, feeling like he's going through the motions, his upcoming Miserable F*ck's retreat for men, and more. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John talks with Flynn Skidmore about how he runs his therapy practice like it's a summer camp. Flynn Skidmore spends his days like he’s at summer camp, running a therapy practice where he helps people understand and get what they want in relationships and business. He creates some of the simplest, clearest, most whoa-I-hadn’t-thought-of-it-like-that personal development content out there. What Flynn is most proud of is the way he cares for and listens to his online community, and the remarkable outcomes his clients experience. You can find out more about his practice here: https://www.flynnskidmore.com This episode is brought to you by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/angry and start building a better relationship with yourself.Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John talks about how to redesign your life from the inside out by building yourself a life container.This episode is brought to you by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/angry and start building a better relationship with yourself.Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John talks about the power of having empathy for others, including those who have hurt you. He also shares a story about a past relationship, and talks about why he feels empathetic for his exes.This episode is brought to you by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/angry and start building a better relationship with yourself.Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John shares his long stretch of singlehood on purpose story, and talks about his revelations about what he's learned being single for a long period of time. This episode is brought to you by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/angry and start building a better relationship with yourself.Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

Get full access to this and other bonus episodes of The Angry Therapist by becoming a subscriber today. You’ll get three bonus episodes every month and ad-free versions of all episodes — all in your podcast player of choice — for just $4/month (or $36/year). Sign up at www.theangrytherapist.com/premium. Listen to this teaser of The Angry Therapist's latest subscriber-only series: a 9.5-hour relationship workshop co-hosted with his partner Vanessa (also a therapist), covering attachment styles, codependency, how to fight without fighting, and more.

In this episode, John talks about the difference between having an abundance mindset versus a scarcity mindset, and gives tips on how to have more of an abundant mindset in your every day life. This episode is brought to you by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/angry and start building a better relationship with yourself.Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John talks about the importance of healing our energy by unblocking it. He also talks about the groundwork of how to open our minds and hearts to new experiences, love, and life after we've been hurt. This episode is brought to you by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/angry and start building a better relationship with yourself.Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John dives into ten different signs you're growing as a person, and how hard it is so grow, heal, and change. This episode is brought to you by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/angry and start building a better relationship with yourself.Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John talks about parenting, but focuses on single parents. He talks about how much stress single parents undergo, the struggles they endure raising children without a support system, how hard dating can be for single parents, and more. This episode is brought to you by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/angry and start building a better relationship with yourself.Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John does a "pass the mic," and asks the people who attended his Miserable F*cks Trauma retreat to share what they learned and what promise they're going to make and keep for themselves. This episode is brought to you by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/angry and start building a better relationship with yourself.Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John dives into an important listeners' question: I feel like I can never stop my toxic behaviors. How do I change? This episode is brought to you by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/angry and start building a better relationship with yourself.Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John does an Instagram live on the go, and talks to his followers about the best thing that's never happened to them. He dives into why, and also shares his stories about the best things that have never happened to him. This episode is brought to you by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/angry and start building a better relationship with yourself.Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John talks about three subtle things that can slowly cripple, or end a relationship. He also talks about how to become aware when you're doing these things, and how to not do them to help mend or save your relationship before it's too late. This episode is brought to you by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/angry and start building a better relationship with yourself.Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John and MC talk about the power of creating distance in our lives, their personal "cancels" on social media, how many people got PTSD from the pandemic, and end with questions you should ask yourself. You can attend John and MC's Trauma retreat here: www.tatretreats.com You can find MC on Instagram @mc.phd and on her website: https://alchemycoaching.life/mc-mcdonald-phdRoughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John and shame coach Paul disclose the things they don’t want anymore as they have entered the “afternoon” of their lives. They also discuss the ridiculously haunting impact of a 90's Shery Crow song.  Paul Chamberlain, known as the Smart Funny Tortured coach, specializes in assisting individuals in processing their shame and discovering purpose. Paul is also a former creative executive who recently developed Shame: The Game, a transformative card game designed to help people rewrite their shame story through metaphor and imagination.  ShameTheGame.com SmartFunnyTortured.comRoughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John talks about the universe and how you can utilize that connect to your inner self/ spirit. He also talks about the importance of looking at things and exploring outside of self to help give you a new perspective on life.  Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John goes into detail about seven different things men want in their relationships. Some are similar to what women want, but others might surprise you. This episode is brought to you by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/angry and start building a better relationship with yourself.Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In today’s episode, John gets a real live “astrotherapy” session with psychotherapist and astrologer, Christina Fitch. They talk about how the stars reveal things about us, and help us in life and relationships. You can find Christina on Instagram @the.atypical.therapist and on her website: [email protected]. Christina is also offering a 50% off discount of one of her sessions to anyone who listens to this podcast episode! This episode is brought to you by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/angry and start building a better relationship with yourself.Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John talks about the real definition of what your "life's work" means, and then does a deep dive into his own definition of what he thinks your "life's work" should mean. He also asks you to be true to yourself, and ask yourself what "life's work" means to you. This episode is brought to you by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/angry and start building a better relationship with yourself.Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John talks about self awareness, and how giving yourself new experiences will help heal you from the outside in and take your power back. This episode is brought to you by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/angry and start building a better relationship with yourself.Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

John does his first live podcast recording, and sits down with New York Times Best Selling author, Kyle Cease, who has a gift of merging comedy with personal transformation. As a comedian, Kyle had two #1 Comedy Central specials and was voted as #1 ranking on Comedy Central's Stand-up Showdown. After leaving his job as an award-winning comedian, Kyle dedicated his life to helping others and created Evolving Out Loud, which is a growing community with over 400 thousand members worldwide. Kyle has personally coached over fifteen thousand people and his YouTube videos have been watched over 60 million times. Kyle, continuously inspired by his daughter, if putting it simply would say; he is ever-evolving [out loud] and on a journey to constantly find out the truth of who he is. You can find Kyle, Evolving Out Loud, and the Absolutely Everything Pass community at kylecease.com. This episode is brought to you by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/angry and start building a better relationship with yourself.Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John gets real about the responsibilities and struggles that comes with being a parent. This episode is brought to you by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/angry and start building a better relationship with yourself.Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John talks about anger and how it's linked to unhappiness. He also gives examples of what being stuck in an anger loop looks like, exercises to feel and release your anger, and important questions to ask yourself when you're angry. This episode is brought to you by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/angry and start building a better relationship with yourself.Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

On today's episode, John and MC talk about aliens, what they would have changed about their divorce, and how we can be trained to be afraid - an experience from the 1920's - in John and MC's new segment called "Science of the Day." You can find MC's Instagram: @mc.phd and her website at: https://alchemycoaching.life/mc-mcdonald-phdThis episode is brought to you by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/angry and start building a better relationship with yourself.Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John talks about three big signs your relationship is in trouble, and how you and your partner can come together and fix them before it's too late.This episode is brought to you by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/angry and start building a better relationship with yourself.Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John interviews Taune Lyons, a licensed marriage family therapist, about attachment styles and how they impact our relationships of all kinds - not just romantic. They also start processing what was happening in real time during the interview, unintentionally demonstrating what happens in therapy rooms.  And finally, John hears the term "big dick energy" for the first time. You can find Taune on Instagram @taunelyons or her website: www.Taunelyons.com Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John talks about how your sense of self is always changing, what connecting to yourself looks like, and how "finding yourself" is a never-ending journey. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John and Vanessa talk about attachment styles and how they want to be celebrated in their relationships. They also answer a few listeners' questions about love, dating, and relationships. John and Vanessa are launching their second ever couples retreat on Sept 8-10th!   Escape to Idyllwild, California, for an unforgettable weekend retreat tailored exclusively for couples. Nestled amidst nature's tranquil embrace, this retreat promises an enriching experience designed to strengthen your bond and foster deep connection.  You can sign up and find out more information here: https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/c/inmiy-retreat-mainfeed/Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John describes what a "perfect day" would look like to him, and talks about how we should all start living and doing things each day that align with what our "perfect day" looks like to help improve our moods, mental health, and mindsets when life starts to feel challenging. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John and Vanessa talk about the revelations they have while writing a book together, and pulling themes from their past and current relationships. John and Vanessa are launching their second ever couples retreat on Sept 8-10th!   Escape to Idyllwild, California, for an unforgettable weekend retreat tailored exclusively for couples. Nestled amidst nature's tranquil embrace, this retreat promises an enriching experience designed to strengthen your bond and foster deep connection.  You can sign up and find out more information here: https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/c/inmiy-retreat-mainfeed/Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John and Dr. MC discuss the science behind joy and how they each thread it into their lives. They also discuss the science behind joy and hope and how important it is to practice to rewire your brain. Finally, they end with three off the cut questions to each other and decide to have these science behind the brain " conversations" as a series on The Angry Therapist.Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John and Vanessa host a workshop and talk about what the definition of "a new love" is. They also talk about the importance of loving your partner as if your relationship is going to end, and asks listeners' what that means and looks like to them. John and Vanessa are launching their second ever couples retreat on Sept 8-10th! Escape to Idyllwild, California, for an unforgettable weekend retreat tailored exclusively for couples. Nestled amidst nature's tranquil embrace, this retreat promises an enriching experience designed to strengthen your bond and foster deep connection. You can sign up and find out more information here: https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/c/inmiy-retreat-mainfeed/Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John talks about the post travel blues, the importance of having a "life anchor," and gives examples on how you can live on a higher frequency and start appreciating more things in your life. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John and Vanessa answer listeners' questions about what healthy and unhealthy expectations are in dating, relationships, and marriage. John and Vanessa are launching their second ever couples retreat on Sept 8-10th!   Escape to Idyllwild, California, for an unforgettable weekend retreat tailored exclusively for couples. Nestled amidst nature's tranquil embrace, this retreat promises an enriching experience designed to strengthen your bond and foster deep connection.  You can sign up and find out more information here: https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/c/inmiy-retreat-mainfeed/Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John shares a personal story about feeling bad about himself after giving into late night cravings, and parenthood. He also talks about the stories we tell ourselves based on how we feel, limited beliefs, and how talk yourself out of repeating patterns that make you feel bad about yourself. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John shares his and his clients break up stories (with their permission), and gives advice on what to do if you're experiencing, or going through a break up. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John and Vanessa answer listeners' questions and talk about why people run in their relationships. John and Vanessa are launching their second ever couples retreat on Sept 8-10th!   Escape to Idyllwild, California, for an unforgettable weekend retreat tailored exclusively for couples. Nestled amidst nature's tranquil embrace, this retreat promises an enriching experience designed to strengthen your bond and foster deep connection.  You can sign up and find out more information here: https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/c/inmiy-retreat-mainfeed/Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John and Vanessa answer a listener's question while they're on the go: how do I stop thinking about my ex? Both John and Vanessa give advice on what to do if you're always thinking about an ex, explain what it means, and give personal examples of how they stopped thinking about their exes. John and Vanessa are launching their second ever couples retreat on Sept 8-10th! Escape to Idyllwild, California, for an unforgettable weekend retreat tailored exclusively for couples. Nestled amidst nature's tranquil embrace, this retreat promises an enriching experience designed to strengthen your bond and foster deep connection. You can sign up and find out more information here: https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/c/inmiy-retreat-mainfeed/Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John and Vanessa discuss the importance of having and expressing your needs in a relationship as they drive on the freeway. They discuss their needs, how they communicate them, how they figure out what their needs are, and end the episode with a homework assignment for their listeners. John and Vanessa are launching their second ever couples retreat on Sept 8-10th!   Escape to Idyllwild, California, for an unforgettable weekend retreat tailored exclusively for couples. Nestled amidst nature's tranquil embrace, this retreat promises an enriching experience designed to strengthen your bond and foster deep connection.  You can sign up and find out more information here: https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/c/inmiy-retreat-mainfeed/Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John does a deep dive on why a lot of his clients (and people in general) believe they're unlovable whether that's from experiences from childhood, getting cheated on, being in multiple unhealthy relationships, and more. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John talks about how important having empathy for your partner is in your relationship (especially when you're frustrated with them), and gives you five examples of what having empathy looks like. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John talks about how we can easily get sucked into a "lacking mindset" which will delay us from our goals and enjoying the present. He also talks about how to catch yourself when you're "lacking," and pull yourself out of that head space. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John and Vanessa host a workshop for their book, It's Not Me, It's You, and dive into the mother and son dynamic in relationships. They also talk about how to have healthy relationships, what codependency looks like in relationships, and give advice to listener's who called in with their questions over Zoom. John and Vanessa are launching their second ever couples retreat on Sept 8-10th!   Escape to Idyllwild, California, for an unforgettable weekend retreat tailored exclusively for couples. Nestled amidst nature's tranquil embrace, this retreat promises an enriching experience designed to strengthen your bond and foster deep connection.   You can sign up and find out more information here: https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/c/inmiy-retreat-mainfeed/ Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

John interviews Jennifer Silbert and Stephanie Choi of Rewilder - Like the wolves of Yellowstone,  We are here to upend the wasteful fashion ecosystem. Starting a cascade of environmental change.  Creating a positive feedback loop. All it takes is a shift in perspective. Small changes, big impacts. And we are bringing big names to the table. It can be done.  These complex problems don’t need complex solutions.  Simple, beautiful designs that Reverse the System.  https://www.rewilder.com/pages/about-us  Jennifer Silbert Master Scavenger Jenny is an architect turned sustainable designer with a passion for dumpster diving. Prior to Rewilder, she pioneered advanced materials and processes for complex architectural projects. A waste reduction expert, she now tackles the world’s trash problem through great design. She is an avid surfer, sailor, and backpacker.  Stephanie Choi CEO Stephanie is a problem solver with a passion for zero waste thinking and practices that stem from her cultural upbringing as a first generation Chinese-American. With experience advising the world’s biggest brands, she applies her background in science, research, marketing, and storytelling to convince everyone that trash is worth saving at Rewilder. She's found her purpose bringing together her love of trash with her strengths in storytelling to build a business with the power to leave a positive imprint on the planet and everyone on it.Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John gets vulnerable while telling a "shit" and "fart" story. He also talks about comparing yourself to others, and gives advice on what to do if you're going through a break up. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John drives to the dentist and talks about how daily life things (such as traffic or getting a tooth pulled) can set you down a negative thought spiral. He gives advice on how to recognize these patterns, and stop them from taking over your every day life. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John talks about how being dishonest with yourself shows in your facial expressions, and gives examples and what that might look like in your life. He also talks about the importance of being honest with yourself about the things you're doing that you dislike.Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John talks about how to embrace the beauty of life's little things (nectar) by: alluring the big, rediscovering the little things, finding happiness in the every day, and more. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John talks about asking yourself important life questions to help you attach meaning to things that are happening to you, and learn lessons to help you grow. He also talks about how creating meaning to your life will help you create purpose, and change your mindset from unhealthy to healthy.Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John gives an update on how cutting out sugar and fat has effected his days, and his revelations of the week. He also talks about obsessive thoughts, addiction, the importance of being kind to yourself, and giving into his cravings. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John talks about five common misconceptions about love and relationships such as: love conquers all, there's only one soulmate for you, the right relationship will not require hard work, and more. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John gets vulnerable and talks about how he cheated once in a past relationship. He goes into detail about what happened, the feelings that came after, the lessons he learned, and how therapists are human and make mistakes too.Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John and Vanessa talk about when it's the right time to express your needs to your partner. They give examples of what needs are, how to communicate a need in a healthy way, and how to sit down with your partner and tackle each others' needs as a team.Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John sits down with Matt Wolcott. They talk about Matt's struggle with addiction, and how he got sober in 2016. Matt grew up in Huntington Beach and moved to LA in 2005. He spends most of his time working on various projects, businesses, hanging with his wife and two daughters. He surfs, tends to bonsai trees, and rides motorcycles in his spare time. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John talks about the results of what happened when he went one week no sugar and no fat. He also talks about holding space for making mistakes, and the importance of setting boundaries with yourself.  Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.    Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com  Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home  Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John talks about healthy vs unhealthy mindsets, important things to focus on, and how to change your mind your view on life when you're stuck on the negative.  Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.    Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com  Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home  Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John talks with his old friend and hairstylist, Janine Jarman. They talk about the perks and struggles of owning your own business, juggling careers while being a parent, and much more. Janine Jarman is founder of Curl Cult, the first ever Protein Perm and hair texture line, and Owner of Hairroin Salon in Los Angeles. A nationally renowned celebrity hair stylist, Jarman has been “hair-obsessed” for as long as she can remember. The self-proclaimed perm queen is bringing back the perm with the launch of Curl Cult in salons nationwide.   Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.    Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com  Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home  Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John talks about his sugar addiction, and what cutting out sugar and fat from his diet for one week was like on his mental and physical health.  Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.    Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com  Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home  Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John talks about fatherhood: the pros, cons, and a heartfelt message to his daughter. He ends the episode with a song from his daughter, Logan.   Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.      Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com  Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home  Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John does a deep dive into the mantras he wrote in his Single On Purpose workbook. He reads them, discusses their meaning, and gives examples of what living those mantras look like in your day to day life.   Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.      Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com  Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home  Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text  

In this episode, John talks to Sarah Williams about what it means to seek nectar, being present in nature, the benefits of ice bath therapy, John's upcoming COED Miserable F*cks Retreat, and much more. Sarah Williams is a professional photographer, adventurer, and coach She believes that our connection to nature is vital and sets out to inspire others to discover and strengthen that relationship. She pushes the boundaries of her body and mind in the pursuit of unique life experiences: She was marooned for 6 days in an underground cave with no food or light with the challenge of navigating out, she spent 4 months solo, walking the length of New Zealand with just a few handful of supplies in a backpack, and she is also an alpinist who summited the tallest mountain in North America, unguided. She helps people to see and feel what's true through photography, and to cultivate internal strength, creativity, and a love of the unknown through guided experiences with ice, breath, and movement in nature. Use the discount code: NECTAR to save $277 on John's upcoming COED Miserable F*cks retreat HERE: https://www.tatretreats.com   Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.      Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com  Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home  Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John sits down with three of his oldest friends (Andy, Charlie, and Nick), and talk about life, parenting, moving your body, changing careers, navigating relationships, and so much more. Andy is a dad, husband, an educator, a fitness guru, an entrepreneur, and a life long adventure enthusiast. He has been a fitness trainer and instructor since 2002, training A-list celebrities, professional athletes, as well as anyone who wants to improve their life with fitness. He opened the first CrossFit gym in the greater Los Angeles area in 2008, and is expanding his reach with online programs and nutrition counseling. He’s also an aspiring artist as well as an accomplished martial artist. And he plays magic the gathering and loves ninja turtles. Charlie is a dad, husband, fitness personality, gym owner and podcast host. He runs his community-driven INDOORphins fitness app out of his Studio City gym and is host on the “eff won with DRS” podcast. Charlie has two boys that keep him in him active and constantly evolving in his role as “dad." Best known for his portrayal of the charming and exacting Dr. Neil Melendez in ABC's global hit, "The Good Doctor", Texas native and Stanford graduate, Nicholas Gonzalez, is no to stranger to audiences who recognize him from a dense resume of some of TV's hottest shows. He can currently be seen starring as ‘Capt. Levi Delgado’ on NBC’s Sci-Fi hit, “La Brea.” Nicholas' passion for humanity exceeds his entertainment work and in depth character portrayals. As a father, husband, actor and activist, Nicholas is committed to projects, both on camera and off, that highlight the injustices, struggles, and victories of the human condition. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.    Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com  Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home  Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John goes over Day 3 in his Single On Purpose Workbook. He talks about all of the different feelings you can feel when you're single, the importance of feeling those feelings, and how not to internalize those feelings, so you don't allow them to define your worth.  Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.    Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com  Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home  Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John talks about dreams, depression, and struggling to get to the other side of your goals. He also talks about what to do when you're stuck with the thoughts: Is this it? Is there more to life? What if I can't do more with my life than what I've already done? And more.  Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.    Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com  Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home  Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John talks about healthy traits to look for in a partner when you're dating and looking for a relationship.  Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.    Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com  Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home  Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John talks with Buddy Wakefield about pulling yourself out of the trenches, past versus present you, growth, healing, self sabotage, writing, and much more. Buddy Wakefield is an American poet, a three-time world champion spoken word artist, and the most toured performance poet in history. Buddy is currently living in Porto, Portugal. When not on tour or leading his online workshop called Writers Anonymous, he offers private sessions to people needing insights, direction and feedback on their writing and other creative projects. You can learn more about his private sessions and Writers Anonymous on buddywakefield.com   Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.    Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com  Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home  Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John talks about four important things to think about when falling in love for the second time, how to push past the fear of getting your heart broken again, and why falling in love again will be a better experience than before. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.    Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com  Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home  Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In today's episode, John goes through the exercises on Day 2 of his new workbook: 31 Days of Single On Purpose. He talks about how there's more to life than love and relationships, encourages you to have a life outside of dating, love, and your relationships, and gives you a homework assignment: what's one thing you can do today to prove that life is more than love and your relationships?   Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.      Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com  Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home  Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In today's episode, John talks about what love is, how to heal, and forgive yourself and others with Danielle LaPorte. Danielle LaPorte is a member of Oprah’s SuperSoul 100 a group who, in Oprah Winfrey’s words, “is uniquely connecting the world together with a spiritual energy that matters.” She is the former director of a future studies think tank in Washington, DC, where she managed a team creating global scenarios. Danielle now speaks about the intelligence of the heart.   Danielle is the creator of the Heart Centered Membership and the Heart Centered Leadership Program with 400+ coaches and facilitators in 30 countries hosting conversation circles and workshops on resilience and collective kindness.  Her most recent book is, How To Be Loving…when your heart is breaking open and the world is waking up ( also an Audiobook, deck and journal). Danielle is also the author of The Fire Starter Sessions, The Desire Map, White Hot Truth, and producer of dozens of meditation kits and programs for spiritual support.  Her podcast, WITH LOVE, DANIELLE, has ranked in iTunes’ top 10 for wellness. Most of her offerings are on a pay what you choose basis. Named one of the Top 100 Websites for Women by Forbes, millions of people a month visit DanielleLaPorte.com.  Marianne Williamson refers to Danielle “as a bright light.” V (formerly known as Eve Ensler) calls her “a force field of energy, wonder, humor, and love.” She lives in Vancouver, BC.   Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.      Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com  Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home  Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

On today's episode, Vanessa Bennett and Dene Logan (Cheaper Than Therapy Podcast) join John as they go through the Day One exercise in John's new workbook: 31 Days of Single On Purpose. The questions act as a catalyst to a deeper conversation about connecting to self.  Here is the link to Vanessa and Dene's upcoming retreat: https://vanessa-bennett-dene-logan.myshopify.com/collections/reclaiming-audacity  And here's the link for Vanessa and Dene's new Cheaper Than Therapy Circle membership https://cheaper-than-therapy.circle.so/checkout/cheaper-than-therapy-general-membership You can find more info about the membership at the following Instagrams: @cheaperthantherapy @vanessasbennett @dene.logan Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.    Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com  Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home  Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John talks about how to create a safe space and practice active listening in your relationships using person centered theory. He talks about what is and how to practice unconditional positive regard, empathetic understanding, and congruence. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.    Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com  Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home  Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John talks about gratitude, and how to trust your body to tell how you feel about your life. He also talks about how to let go of how you want your life to be, and be open to how life falls into place for you. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.    Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com  Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home  Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John reads a letter he wrote to one of his exes he feels has a lot of anger towards him. He also challenges you to think about what daily action you're taking to help you let go of an ex you're still not completely over. Is it healthy? Or not so much? Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.    Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com  Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home  Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John answers five listeners' questions as fast on topics about having sex on the first date, dealing with an emotionally unavailable partner, lingering feelings from previous relationships, and more. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.    Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com  Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home  Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John interviews good friend, therapist, and mindfulness coach, Dené Logan. She talks about her previous marriage, how she moved through her divorce, and meeting her ex's new partner. Dené specializes in tools for reclaiming the self when we've been conditioned to abandon throughout our lives, moving through anxiety, understanding our addictive patterns, and communicating more effectively in our relationships. She is passionate about facilitating group immersive experiences and retreats. Dené is also the co-host of the podcast, Cheaper than Therapy. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.    Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com  Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home  Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John gives advice and answers a listener's question: what should I be doing if I'm going through a break up I can't get over? Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.    Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com  Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home  Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John brings mindfulness to street level. He explains what it is, how to do it, and why it's important to incorporate it into your everyday life.  Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.    Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com  Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home  Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John talks about the difference between masculine and feminine energy, and why it's important to pull from both when you're dating and in your relationships. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.    Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com  Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home  Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John talks about how to take your power back when you find yourself obsessing over something you want, and what to do if you've found you've lost yourself in the obsession.  Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.    Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com  Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home  Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John gets extremely vulnerable as he dives into some of his most impactful childhood memories.  Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.    Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com  Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home  Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John reads a letter he wrote to his future self one year ago, and reflects on his growth. He also encourages you to write one to your future self, and put it away for you read in a year or two. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.    Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com  Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home  Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John talks about his past experience with insomnia, and gives advice on what to do if you're upset because your ex is happy. If you want to do 31 Days of Single on Purpose with 4400 other like minded singles, jump in here: https://tinyurl.com/3ky4rvjd Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.    Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com  Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home  Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John gives his four signs that you may be the problem in your relationship: the same thing keeps happening in your relationships, you keep dating the same person, you're always defensive, and you don't take ownership. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.    Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com  Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home  Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John talks about shitty jobs he's had in the past, how to find happy if you're currently in a shitty job, and what to do if you're in a shitty job and can't stand it anymore. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.    Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com  Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home  Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John talks about the difficulties of constantly being in your head, and how that can sabotage your relationships. He also challenges you to find activities that help get you out of your head, and start living in the present. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.    Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com  Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home  Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John talks about how growth is a dance, and we all snap back into old patterns no matter how much we've worked on ourselves. When that happens, it's hard to feel like we've grown at all. Luckily, John goes over ten different signs that you are growing, so you won't feel so hard on yourself whenever you snap back.   Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.    Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com  Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home  Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text Get bonus episodes every week and ad-free versions of all episodes by subscribing to The Angry Therapist Premium for just $4/month or $36/year – that’s 2 months free! Visit theangrytherapist.com/premium to subscribe.

In this episode, John debunks a lot of myths on love, and what it is not. He then gives his definition on what he thinks makes love real with three very important things that you may least expect.   Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.    Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com  Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home  Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text Get bonus episodes every week and ad-free versions of all episodes by subscribing to The Angry Therapist Premium for just $4/month or $36/year – that’s 2 months free! Visit theangrytherapist.com/premium to subscribe.

In this episode, John talks about three potential signs your relationship might be in trouble: can't resolve conflict, disconnection with yourself, and feeling invisible.   Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.    Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com  Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home  Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text Get bonus episodes every week and ad-free versions of all episodes by subscribing to The Angry Therapist Premium for just $4/month or $36/year – that’s 2 months free! Visit theangrytherapist.com/premium to subscribe.

In this episode, John talks about two game changers that will help improve your relationship: 5 minutes of uninterrupted time with your partner, and the 6 second kiss.   Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text Get bonus episodes every week and ad-free versions of all episodes by subscribing to The Angry Therapist Premium for just $4/month or $36/year – that’s 2 months free! Visit theangrytherapist.com/premium to subscribe.

In this episode, John talks about one of the most crucial parts of practicing self awareness with yourself and in your life.  Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.    Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com  Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home  Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John and Vanessa talk about how to choose yourself in a relationship, and give a few listeners advice on their relationships. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.    Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com  Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home  Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John talks about apologizing: what it is, why it's important, and how to properly take ownership and apologize for your mistakes.   Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place.   Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John gets extremely vulnerable in his recorded therapy session. Together, John and his therapist discuss healthy vs unhealthy ego, thoughts and feelings on being fifty, and being more fluid in life. Look, Just Tell Me What To Do. A podcast by Benjamin Russack, LMFT Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John brings on the facilitators from his most recent Miserable F*cks Retreat. They each take a turn to introduce themselves, answer deep questions, and talk about how much of a success the first day of the COED Miserable F*cks Retreat was.   Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place.   Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John has Vanessa and Dene on the podcast to answer three listeners' questions. They also talk about what reclaiming your audacity looks like, and have a deep conversation on the benefits and dangers of depth psychology. Therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as he pulls the curtain back and documents his journey to humanize the therapist. Meet him at -> http://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John talks about attraction: what he used to be attracted to, what type of people used to be attracted to him, and how attraction for him has changed and grown over the years.  Meet him at https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John talks about break-ups, and emphasizes how you're not actually getting over your ex. Instead, you're reestablishing a healthy relationship with yourself. Meet him at -> www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John talks about the five stages of a relationship: the discovery phase, the disappointment phase, the dancing phase, the development/ dedication phase, and back to the discovery phase. Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John talks about the steps to take if you're no longer feeling interested in your partner, or current relationship. Meet him at https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John reads a relationship quote from Carl Jung, and talks about how and why you should start looking at your relationships like they're sunsets.   Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.     Meet him at -> http://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John talks about certain types of behavior that are toxic to do when you're single. Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John and Vanessa answer a listener's question: when should I break up with my therapist? Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John talks about life alignment and what it looks like in your daily life.  Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. Meet him at -> http://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John talks about how to seek nectar, love hard, and resist nothing.  Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John talks about a few things that will lead to suffering. Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John and Vanessa talk about things that strip joy. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> http://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John and Vanessa talk about they project their "worst self" onto each other, and practice ways to stop projecting onto your partner. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John talks about how love really starts after you fall in love. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John interviews Humble, The Poet. They talk about how they both started and got traction in their careers. The ups and downs and leaning into their becoming. And of course, they talk about love love love. Humble The Poet Instagram: @humblethepoet How To Love Yourself book on Amazon Therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as he pulls the curtain back and documents his journey to humanize the therapist. Jump into his live online communities Get his daily texts Follow his Instagram Follow his TikTok

In this episode, John has a conversation with Alana about a sexual encounter they almost had years ago, what happened, and why they didn't sleep together. Here's a link to a Spotify playlist Alana made for John: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/6ozIg4qkvvTT2fyvxVtXCd?si=c0962fea42d746cf . It's a good one. Enjoy! Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. Meet him at -> www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John talks about how to reach for something you want in life (goals, dreams, etc.) without losing your footing (sense of self, living in the present, etc.). Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. Meet him at -> www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John talks about his first experience using ketamine during a psychotherapy session. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  Meet him at -> www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John asks a listeners' question: is it too early to date someone one year after my divorce? Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  Meet him at -> www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John lists three positive signs that your relationship will last. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  Meet him at -> www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John and Paul eat their feelings, and talk about why they made the difficult decision to cancel the Single On Purpose Festival. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  Meet him at -> www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In today's episode, John explains his reframe of "break up" to "expired relationship" and why it's helpful. He tried to explain on Dax Shepard's Armchair Expert Podcast but John mentioned the time he had sex with a plum when he was twelve, and of course that topic got side tracked. He assures he will not talk about plums in this episode. Instead, go deeper on the reframe and how to get to acceptance, the first step in starting the healing journey after an expired relationship. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John gives his tips on how to find out your partner's attachment style. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  

In this episode, John does a deep dive on attachment styles. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  Meet him at -> www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John talks about how to realign your relationship in five steps. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  Meet him at -> www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John gives advice on how to show up for the life you want to live. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  Meet him at -> www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John reads a story and gives tips on how to rediscover your partner. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  Meet him at -> www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John talks about how to raise your self esteem/ confidence, and why raising it should be a daily promise to yourself. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  Meet him at -> www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In today’s episode, John interviews Joe Akira, a kid John treated years ago when he was working in non profit. Joe was a lost 13 year old but now a thriving 27 year old. They reflect on Joe’s troubled youth and awoling the program. And how John was fresh off a divorce and rebuilding his own life, which he hid from the kids. A heartfelt episode about our collisions and how they affect us.  Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  Meet him at -> www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John talks about his views and definition on "love at first sight." Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John talks about and gives examples on how to grow your relationship. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John answers a listener's question: what does a healthy relationship look like? Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John answers a listeners' question, and explains the difference between having needs and feeling needy in your relationships. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John explains how to take ownership, and why it's more for you than for the other person. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John talks about the love lessons he's learned from his own experiences in relationships. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John talks about how to forgive a partner who cheated, and what steps it will take to make the relationship work. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John talks about what the "pursuers" and "distancers" are in relationships, and encourages you to look at your behavioral patterns to determine which one you are in your relationships. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John explains his views on New Years resolutions, and talks about why it's not the New Years' job to "fix" you. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John talks about the importance of having your own life outside of your partner's. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John talks about how to love without your past and not allow your past relationships into your life and/or the new relationship you're in now. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John reflects on 2022. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John shares his twenty seven life lessons. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John does a reframe on love, and how it's more about finding the right you rather than finding the right "one." Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John talks about the importance of seeking nectar in life, and gives examples of what nectar in his life is. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John talks about how something as little as a parking ticket can test your character. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John talks about why it's important to have new love experiences, and change our definition of love. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John talks about how to create and hold a safe space and practice active listening in your relationships. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John talks about his couples' session with Vanessa, and shares The 12 Principles Of Secure Functioning Relationships their therapist gave them. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John gives his listeners' tips and advice on how to find and be happy. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode of The Trauma Tapes, a letter writer is coming from the other side of the table. After doing a lot of work to repair and understand their past, they are trying to let go of their shame at having traumatized other people. MC and Elizabeth talk about perpetrator trauma, good vs. evil, and what self-forgiveness actually looks like.

In this episode, John is joined by Vanessa Bennett and Dene Logan to talk about self abandonment: what is it and what it looks like in your relationships. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John talks about three ways you can treat yourself better after leaving a toxic relationship. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode of The Trauma Tapes, a letter writer asks MC and Elizabeth how to make sense of a life that contains both success and trauma. They talk about her story, run through the disorganized attachment style and then hone in on Adverse Childhood Experience (ACEs) and their opposite – Positive Childhood Experiences (PCEs).

In this episode, John answers one of the most asked listeners' question: how do I move on? Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John explains three ways you can be a better partner in your relationship. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John talks about why he's grateful / thankful for certain things in his life, and challenges you to think about the "why" instead of "what" you are grateful / thankful for this Thanksgiving. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John and Vanessa talk about three things that change their state, and dive into a fight they had last night. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John asks listeners to look at their relationships and ask themselves how their relationships are making them grow as a human. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode of The Trauma Tapes, MC and Elizabeth talk to a letter writer about how to peel back the shame she feels when she goes back to an abusive ex, so she can reconnect with herself and move on. They explain how this is in part a neurobiological issue, and what she can do about it in order to begin a new life.

In this episode, John and Vanessa interview Eve Rodsky, New York Times best-selling author of Fair Play and National Bestseller, Find Your Unicorn Space. Eve Rodsky transformed a “blueberries breakdown” into a catalyst for social change when she applied her Harvard-trained background in organizational management to ask the simple yet profound question: What would happen if we treated our homes as our most important organizations? Her New York Times bestselling book and Reese’s Book Club Pick, Fair Play, a gamified life-management system that helps partners rebalance their domestic workload and reimagine their relationship, has elevated the cultural conversation about the value of unpaid labor and care. In her highly anticipated follow-up, Find Your Unicorn Space: Reclaim Your Creative Life in a Too-Busy World, Rodsky explores the cross-section between the science of creativity, productivity, and resilience. Described as the ‘antidote to physical, mental, and emotional burnout,’ Rodsky aims to inspire a new narrative around the equality of time and the individual right to personal time choice that influences sustainable and lasting change on a policy level. Rodsky’s work is backed by Hello Sunshine—Reese Witherspoon’s media company whose mission is to change the narrative for women through storytelling. Rodsky was born and raised by a single mom in New York City and now lives in Los Angeles with her husband Seth and their three children. Learn more about Fair Play and Unicorn Space at fairplaylife.com

In this episode, John brings three random people in the room to ask them hard questions. They each get a turn to ask a hard question. This ends up creating a meaningful dialogue and wasting no time to get deep fast. There is no shallow end of the pool here. Hope you enjoy.  Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this week's episode of The Trauma Tapes, MC and Elizabeth talk about an exercise called "punching back." In it, you take the negative beliefs that you’re carrying around and put them on paper. Then you punch back by asking what the flip side of the negative beliefs is. If you say “I’m needy” for example, you might punch back by saying, “I’m also very loving.”

In this episode, John convinces Vanessa to get on his Harley and do a free session in the park, helping a couple who emailed John from the internet (fell from the sky). They want to work on their relationship before they have their baby.  Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John challenges and debunks a common quote: "you can't love someone until you find yourself." Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode of The Trauma Tapes, a letter writer is facing a difficult decision. Stay in her marriage when her husband wants to be polyamorous, or leave and lose him entirely. MC and Elizabeth talk about the trauma of a profound lack of a relational home.

In this episode, John talks about his three signs that you're in an emotionally safe relationship. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John answers listeners' questions such as: can long distance work, should I get back with my ex, can I heal from infidelity, and more. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In today's episode of The Trauma Tapes, MC and Elizabeth talk to a letter writer about why trauma can pop up ten years later, and what to do about it. They revisit the definition of trauma that we use: unbearable emotional experience that lacks a relational home-- and talk about the difference between simple and complex trauma.

Melody Beattie is the best selling author of Codependent No More. Since its first publication 36 years ago, it has helped heal over seven million readers and continues to sell 100,000+ copies a year. Updated for the first time, with a new chapter on trauma and anxiety, and Melody’s personal story revealed for the first time, this modern classic holds the key to understanding codependency and unlocking its hold on your life. You can find her book here: https://melodybeattie.com/ Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In this episode, John talks about three things you can't get back in life. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Meet him at -> www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

In today's episode of The Trauma Tapes Series, MC and Elizabeth talk to a letter writer about letting go, radically accepting, and moving on. They also talk a bit more about the fight, flight, or freeze response to clarify a previous question.

In this episode, John talks about what love really is and means in our relationships. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

In this episode, John talks about three possible reasons why your partner might be pulling away. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  

In the first episode of The Trauma Tapes Series with Dr. MC McDonald and Elizabeth Meadows, a letter writer asks how to deal with triggers in an intimate relationship. Both MC and Elizabeth unpack triggers - what they are, how they work, and how to work around them.

In this episode, John talks with Paul Chamberlain about depression and suicidal ideation. Paul is also known as the Smart Funny Tortured Coach who has learned how to find the better part of our darker angels and shine a light on the unique gifts that make us powerful. Formerly a senior creative officer and serial entrepreneur for over 25 years, he contributed his award-winning expertise in branding, event/entertainment production, and pop culture to companies and industries that everyone knows. After suffering from over a decade of undiagnosed chronic illnesses and an inauthentic self. He became profoundly depressed and at times suicidal, all while struggling as a husband, father, and creative. It all came to an end with one last project that would “fix it all”. It didn’t. It just made it much worse. That led to separation from his family and near bankruptcy. At that point, he recognized his story of self harm and chasing illusory overnight success was becoming fatal. Today, thanks to an abundance of love and grit, as well as a blend of traditional therapy, coaching, integrative medicine, and holistic lifestyle changes; he now lives a happy balanced life with his wife/business partner, their two kids and the beloved chaos bundle of pets. He is also the creator/host of the popular Smart Funny Tortured podcast which trends in the top 2.5% of Personal Journals on iTunes globally. Along with everything else, he profoundly enjoys the privilege of teaching Social Entrepreneurship within the UNLV Lee Business School and volunteering as a certified crisis advocate at The Center - serving the LGBTQ community of Nevada. Coaching played such an integral part in his redemption that it served as inspiration to become one and gave his story an accredited, evidence-based framework that could be adapted and empowers him to be of service to people he knows, loves and understands…the smart, funny and tortured. Paul's Website: https://www.smartfunnytortured.com https://www.smartfunnytortured.com/coaching Paul's Podcast iTunes: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/smart-funny-tortured/id1568775383

In this episode, John talks about how to deal with jealousy and jealous behavior in a healthy way. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

In this episode, John dives into the Gottmans' "Four Horsemen" theory. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

In this episode, John and Vanessa talk all about parenting with parent coach and author, Meghan Leahy. Meghan Leahy is the mother of three daughters. She practices Zen Buddhism, holds a bachelor’s degree in English and secondary education and a master’s degree in school counseling and she is a certified parent coach and Neufeld Institute Facilitator as well as the On Parenting Columnist at the Washington Post. You can follow Meghan on Instagram @mlparentcoach You can buy Meghan's book: Parenting Outside the Lines: Forget the Rules, Tap into Your Wisdom, and Connect with Your Child HERE

In this episode, John talks about how no matter how much work we've done on ourselves, we can still snap back to our old ways. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

In this episode, John talks about how feelings of anger has more to do with our past than our present. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  

In this episode, John talks all about anxious attachment style with psychotherapist and author of "Anxiously Attached," Jessica Baum. Jessica Baum, LMHC, is the founder of the Relationship Institute of Palm Beach, providing couples therapy, family counseling, and addiction therapy in South Florida for over 10 years. She has helped thousands of clients with her unique approach to healing, the Self-full® Method. Through her sister company, Be Self-full (beselffull.com), Jessica offers transformational courses and online coaching services that support individuals and couples to form healthy, long-term relationships.  You can order Jessica's book Anxiously Attached HERE You can follow Jessica on Instagram @jessicabaumlmhc You can find more information on Jessica's website HERE

In this episode, John wakes up early and talks about how productive you can be in the morning. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  

In this episode, John talks about what to do when people trigger us. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  

In this episode, John answers questions about his personal life from his listeners. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

In this episode, John talks about getting his first colonoscopy and explains how it gave him a reset on life. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

In this episode, John talks about the importance of having authentic friendships. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

In this episode of "It's Not Me, It's You," John and Vanessa talk about our needs in relationships and why they're important.

In this episode, John talks about getting a massage, and why things activate us on a deeper level. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

In this episode, John is joined by fellow therapists Vanessa Bennett, Dene Logan, MC McDonald, and Taune Lyons to talk about trauma, codependency, attachment styles, singlehood, and relationships.

In this episode, John and Vanessa talk about the different types of attachment styles you can have in your relationships.

In this episode, John talks about the first half of your life (sun) versus the second half of your life (moon). Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  

In this episode, John does a deep dive on three signs you may be dating the wrong person. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  

In this episode of "It's Not Me, It's You," John and Vanessa talk about their experience taking their first tantra class.

In this episode, John talks about what to do if you're not feeling it anymore in your relationship. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  

In this episode, John answers a listener's question: how do I change my partner without nagging them? Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

In this episode of "It's Not Me, It's You," John and Vanessa talk about the the idea of how to love like it's going to end.

In this episode, John talks about a simple way to practice mindfulness. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

After reading a blog post by Esther Perel, John has come up with 6 relationship myths he has come across. John's 6 relationship myths 1. If the sex isn't good the relationship isn't good 2. Once a cheater always a cheater 3. Your partner is your best friend 4. Fighting is a sign that something is wrong 5. People in a relationship don't flirt 6. Everything doesn't have to be revealed or told Here's a link to the original post, https://www.estherperel.com/blog/5-myths-we-tell-ourselves-when-were-dating Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

In this episode of "It's Not Me, It's You," John and Vanessa talk about how believing and looking for "the one" is more damaging than you think.

In this special episode, John sends a message to all of our current and previous TAT Lab members. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  

In this episode, John talks about things he struggles with and the importance of being happy with what you have right now. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

In this episode, John talks about the four things he believes you will regret if you don't start doing them now.

In this episode of "It's Not Me, It's You," John and Vanessa talk about how they met and the importance of choosing yourself in your relationships.

In this episode, John challenges you to not expect anything for an entire day, and why it's important not to put weight on expectations. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

In this episode, John talks about the importance of connecting to yourself. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

In this episode of "It's Not Me, It's You," John and Vanessa talk about two communication extremes in relationships.

In this episode, John talks about how to stop dreading the things you don't want to do. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  

In this episode, John talks about the two shitty jobs he's had, and what to do if you have a shitty job. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  

In this episode, John does a deep dive on break-ups and shares his thoughts on what moving on really looks like and explains why you're not getting over anyone. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

In this episode, John talks about the belief that anything is possible no matter where you're at in life. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

In this episode, John answers a listener's question he gets asked often: what are your thoughts on open relationships? Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  AOspfhJ5gZgQ2yifBKSw

In this episode of "It's Not Me, It's You," John and Vanessa discuss what loving with your past looks like and how important it is to love without your past in your current relationship. AOspfhJ5gZgQ2yifBKSw

In this episode, John encourages and talks about how to take your pleasure seriously. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

In this episode, John breaks down how he starts, tackles, and finishes his day. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

In this episode, John talks about the four food groups of life. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

In this episode, John gives his step by step guide on what to do if you're going through a break-up. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

John Kim talks to Dr. MC McDonald about her new book, Unbroken. We talk all things trauma - the fact that we don't get to adulthood without some exposure to trauma, what the most common misconceptions are regarding trauma, what a trigger actually is, and what healing can look like.  Unbroken starts off with a very simple idea: What if instead of seeing traumatic experience as that which breaks our spirit, we see it as that which proves our spirit cannot be broken? With Unbroken, McDonald offers a radical reframing of how we understand trauma―and a profound new approach for healing. According to McDonald, trauma occurs whenever we experience something that shatters our structures of belief about the world and our place within it. When trauma occurs, our miraculous biological systems adapt to help us survive―and sometimes this creates a constellation of mysterious symptoms that persist long after the event. If we can see these initial adaptations as natural strength responses, we come away with a new path to healing. We must tend to our neurobiological systems while we grieve our shattered beliefs and find new meaning, peeling away layers of shame as we go. You can PRE-ORDER a copy of Unbroken by Dr. MC McDonald HERE.

In this special episode of "It's Not Me, It's You," John and Vanessa host a live workshop and dive into topics they cover in their upcoming book: It's Not Me, It's You.

In this episode, John talks about how being in relationships are similar to being in recovery. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

In this episode, John interviews Celebrity Dating Coach Damona Hoffman who has been coaching singles on how to find love online and offline for over 15 years. Her articles appear regularly in The LA Times and The Washington Post. Plus, she’s a regular on-air contributor to The Drew Barrymore Show, NPR, and NBC’s Access Daily. Damona also starred in two A+E Networks’ TV shows: #BlackLove and A Question of Love. Her weekly podcast Dates & Mates has been featured in Cosmopolitan, Huff Post, Bustle and tops the charts in the Relationships category on the major podcast platforms.

In this episode of "It's Not Me, It's You," John and Vanessa talk about attraction after motherhood.

In this episode, John explains how to build your relationship with you. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

In this episode, John answers a listener's question: is it okay to peep our ex's social media? And is it okay if they peep ours? Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

In this episode of "It's Not Me, It's You," John and Vanessa talk about what resetting your day looks like and why it's important for your relationship.

In this episode, John explains how to calm your nervous system,. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

In this episode, John talks about the Polaroid Syndrome: looking back at old snapshots of your past relationships. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

In this episode of It's Not You, It's Me, John and Vanessa host an Instagram live and answer viewers' questions.

In this episode, John talks about how it's okay to not know what's going to happen in life. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  

In this episode, John talks about how to live in a high frequency and attract more of what you want out of life. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

In this episode of "It's Not Me, It's You," John and Vanessa explain how important your needs are in your relationships.

In this episode, John talks about past and current feelings that come up in our lives, and how they can make us feel stuck. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

In this episode, John talks about his own and having fork in the road moments. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

In this episode of "It's Not Me, It's You," John and Vanessa give you three reasons on why you should join their book club starting June 6th at 1:00 pm PST.

In this episode, John does an Instagram live at home, and chooses a couple to have a session with as they're driving in the car. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

In this episode, John shares some life tips and explores how to stop recreating what was. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

In this episode of "It's Not Me, It's You," John and Vanessa speak with Ashley and Lair Torrent all about the practice of love.

In this episode, John talks about how important it is to stop hiding and be as honest as soon as possible when you're dating. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

In this episode, John talks about playing back old memories to recreate the amazing feeing it gave you back then today, and how memories and new experiences make an imprint in your life. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

In this episode of "It's Not Me, It's You," John and Vanessa talk about two types of relationship energy with special guest, Dene Logan.

In this episode, John reads a letter he wrote to himself. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

In this episode, John talks about the benefits of being open to everything in life while not attaching yourself to anything in life at the same time. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

In this episode of "It's Not Me, It's You," John and Vanessa have a laser session with another couple.

In this episode, John talks about encourages his listeners to pause and think about what they're looking forward to in life. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

In this episode, John talks about the fine line between self care and self destruction. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

In this episode of "It's Not Me, It's You," John and Vanessa have a laser therapy session with another couple.

In this episode, John explains and gives his tips on how to know if your relationship is safe. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

In this episode, John talks about the different types of barriers you should look for that prevents love. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

In this episode of "It's Not Me, It's You," John and Vanessa talk about having hard conversations and what's running underneath relationship conflicts.

In this episode, John talks about a new type of love we should thread into all of our relationships. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

In this episode, John talks with a longtime friend, Haylin Dennison, about social work, trauma, growth, and life. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

In this episode of "It's Not Me, It's You," John and Vanessa have a conversation about radical responsibility in relationships.

In this episode, John shares his advice on how to be more productive. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  

In this episode, John talks about the type of people you shouldn't wait around for. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  

In this episode, John hosts an Instagram live called "Therapy Thursdays" where he asks and answers listeners' questions live. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

In this episode, John talks about his revelations he's learned at 49. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

In this episode, John talks about his definitions of what makes a good life. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  

In this episode, John answers a listener's question: what should I do if he emotionally cheated on me? Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  

In this episode, John talks about the importance of having alone time. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  

In this episode, John talks about the ten signs you are growing. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

In this episode, John and Vanessa talk about the difference between breakers and red flags in relationships.

In this episode, John talks about how we can snap back in our old ways after we have started working on ourselves. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

In this episode, John plays back some of his relationships and previous experiences, and talks about what to do when you get down on yourself about them. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

In this episode, John talks with book agent JL Stermer all about writing books, getting published, and how to stand out on social media.

In this episode, John talks about the TV show "Love is Blind," dating, relationships, love whether he believes love is blind or not. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

In this episode, John answers a listener's question: should I leave my marriage? Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

In this episode, Gabi Conti talks with John about dating and serial killers? Gabi can give you something better. The first ten episode season of Gabi's "Am I Dating A Serial Killer?" is available only on audible  https://www.audible.com/pd/Am-I-Dating-a-Serial-Killer-Podcast/B09RGF92W3 Her book "Twenty Guys You Date In Your Twenties" is available wherever you buy or listen to books https://www.gabiconti.com/book-twenty-guys-you-date-in-your-twenties-by-gabi-conti more info on Gabi can be found on my website  https://www.gabiconti.com/ or her Instagram: @itsGabiConti 

In this episode, John explains and gives examples on how to create new love experiences. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

In this episode, John talks about taking swings at life and what it means to live consciously. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

In this episode, John and Vanessa talk work, love, life, and family with Charlie and Erika Curtis.

In this episode, John talks about his dad and the importance of having empathy. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  

In this episode, John talks about life anchors, what they are, and how to integrate them into your daily life. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  

In this episode, John and Vanessa read a chapter from their new book about how they first met, and talk about what they both experienced during the first few months of their relationship.

In this episode, John pulls content from his book, Single. On Purpose, and talks about what moving on from your ex really looks like. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

In this episode, John gives you steps on how to build yourself a new life container. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

In this episode, John and Vanessa talks about conscious love and dive into the different love we experience in our 20's, 30's, and 40's.

In this episode, John talks about the different types of grief you will experience after a break-up. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

In this episode, John talks about the five things needed for your relationship to grow and thrive. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

In this episode, John and Vanessa talk about the revelations they have while writing a book together, and pulling themes from their past and current relationships.

In this episode, John shares his opinion on the kind of love we look for in our 30's. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

In this episode, John answers a listener's question about finding other people attractive while you're in a relationship, and the importance of living like you're on vacation. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

In this episode, John and Vanessa answer listeners' questions about different expectations in dating and relationships.

In this episode, John talks about two relationship game changers which might not be what you think. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

In this episode, John talks about the three things your relationship should be able to survive. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

In this episode, John and Vanessa share what their most recent revelations are.

In this episode, John gives advice on how to pull yourself out of the trenches. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

In this episode, John gives his tips and examples on how to hold on and push through when you see the island. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

In this episode, John and Vanessa discuss ways to approach communicating your needs and desires with a partner. They also examine their still forming thoughts about balancing feminine and masculine energies through introspection, ownership and self-awareness.

In this episode, John shares some stories and revelations around raising a child in today's world. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

In this episode, John pulls from his book, Single. On Purpose, and talks about how to treat your mind better. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

In this episode, John and Vanessa record a live Q&A from inside a TAT Lab session. They discuss how self work can sometimes feel like 2 steps forward and 1 step back, and how when ambivalence shows up in ourselves and in relationships we need to examine and act on it. 

In this episode, John talks about the importance of rewiring and processing your old residue. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  

In this episode, John talks about how to push yourself out of your comfort zone and be "relationships better."

In this episode, John and Vanessa discuss how fantasy and jealousy can present themselves in relationships, and where the line between healthy and not healthy can be drawn for both.

In this episode, John talks about all of the things technology cannot take away from us. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

In this episode, John tackles and discusses an important question everyone is asked: what do you want to be when you grow up? Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

In this episode, John and Vanessa share letters that they've written to their partners of the past. They discuss the lessons gathered from those relationships, how they’ve transcended over time, and how they show up in their partnership today.

In this episode, John reviews 2021: what happened, the good, the bad, and the what he's learned along the way. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  

In this episode, John plays a recording he made on his phone about reasons why one should let someone go. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

In this episode, John and Vanessa share some exciting news about a new project that they're working on together, and what it’s bringing up for them. They discuss how there tends to be power differentials in relationships and how they can cultivate a dynamic where they're true partners bringing their own unique things to the table.

In this episode, John answers and gives advice on a listeners question: what do I do when I think my partner is having an emotional affair? Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

In this one hour long episode, John hosts his first in-person podcast interview with fellow crossfitters to talk about fitness, and their stories. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

In this episode, John and Vanessa answer questions submitted by the listeners. They talk through and sometimes disagree on questions around how to not be the toxic one in a relationship, how you can make a relationship with an Avoidant work, the reality of “getting over” a relationship, and when two people’s sexual drives aren’t aligned.

In this episode, John talks about the difference between what your nervous system wants versus what your soul wants. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

In this episode, John gives advice and answers some listeners' questions including: "would you still be attracted to/be in love with your wife if she gained 100 pounds?" "Any tips on how to remain calm around toxic family during the holidays?" and "how do I heal from a toxic relationship and stop thinking about my toxic ex?" Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

An extra hard day of parenting can test your relationship in many ways, especially in terms of having your needs met. Getting your needs met isn’t just about asking for them. Your partner should move toward you as well, especially if you have difficulty expressing your needs. Needs are a two-way street. Let John and Vanessa explain.

In this episode, John talks about four important things that make singles thrive. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

In this episode, John talks about how to let your life unfold, trust the unfolding, and be open to what the universe presents to you. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

In this episode, John and Vanessa go over what they think are their top 3 relationship killers. They discuss how they show up, how they can be more aware of them, and how they can work to ensure they don’t show up in their relationships, or how to work on them if they do.

In this episode, John talks about a fight he almost got into at the gym, what the experience reminded him of, how fast we can snap back to our "old selves," and the importance of responding instead of reacting. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  

In this episode, John sings a Madonna song and talks about the four ways to help you stay attracted to your partner. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  

Sexual Desire. It’s a topic that is always coming up for John, Vanessa, and their clients. How much sex is enough? How come I always want it and they don’t? What’s wrong with me / with them? John and Vanessa break down the two distinct types of desire and why understanding them both can be a massive shift in your relationship. This was a huge lightbulb moment for Vanessa. Please rate and review if you feel like this is valuable and want to help us help others.

In this episode, John records his first EFT session lead by TAT Lab instructor, Susheela Kundargi. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

In this episode, John sits down and chats with actor, Nicholas Gonzalez.

Money is one of those topics that can make or break a relationship. John and Vanessa discuss how their upbringings and personal beliefs about money shape them individually, but also as a partnership. Please rate and review if you feel like this is valuable and want to help us help others.

In this episode, John talks about the importance of being kind to you first. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  

In this episode, John talks about his theory on how to heal a broken heart. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

So many relationship dances, so little time: Avoidant/Anxious, Overfunctioner/Underfunctioner, CODA/Compulsive, Enabler/Enabled. John and Vanessa dive into how they are always trying to become more aware when the cycles start and old patterns take over, and how they can work to break them through naming them. Please rate and review if you feel like this is valuable and want to help us help others.

In this episode, John talks about how to properly express your needs in your relationships. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

In this episode, John talks about how being blindsided by a break up can be more difficult than other break ups, and how to heal from them. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

In this episode, John and Vanessa get into the importance of feeling an experience or a change in your habits, behaviors or needs in your body - having a full system experience - in order for you to eventually rewire your brain and make the change stick. They also talk about some personal examples where they have felt the integration happening in real time.

In this episode, John talks about our unhealthy defaults and how to change them. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

In this episode, John talks about his dad and how to practice taking healthy risks. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

In this episode, John and Vanessa each go through three love lessons they've learned on their journeys. Some learned through past love experiences and some new lessons learned with each other.

In this episode, John discusses some helpful advice and tips on how to be single and connect back to yourself.

In this episode, John discusses the three things that poisons love that he got from a book he's reading, "The Four Noble Truths of Love" by Susan Piver.

In this episode, John and Vanessa review of all the crazy things that happened in 2020, the learnings that came from those experiences, and the excitement for what’s to come.

In this episode, John talks about what living in the light vs what living in the dark looks like, where you're pulling from, and how to change it. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  

In this episode, John gives his insight on a question he's commonly asked: can our marriage survive affairs? Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

In this episode, John and Vanessa talk about the double edged sword that is their contrasting personalities. The things they love about each other are also the same things that can activate the shit out of them. How do they continue to remind themselves that their differences can actually be what helps them stretch and the relationship go deeper?

In this episode, John and Vanessa talk about sending their daughter off to school, and answer live questions from people over Zoom.

In this episode, John talks about practicing mindfulness while washing his car and gives you a piece of advice he learned about when he was a teenager.

In this episode, John and Vanessa take a look at their star charts and how they both align as well as conflict. They talk through how our inner emotional worlds are almost the exact opposite and how differences like this can make or break them depending on how much they understand, empathize, and adjust their expectations accordingly.

In this episode, John talks about overcoming his fears including his fear of small animals. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  

In this episode, John talks about three possible signs your relationship might be in trouble and why. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  

In this episode of "It's Not Me, It's You" series, John and Vanessa take a different approach with a deep dive into codependency and how it affects their relationship. In working through her own codependency, as well as with clients who almost all struggle in some way or another, Vanessa has made it a personal mission to speak openly with whoever will listen about the different ways it can show up.

In this episode, John talks about what he believes is a crucial part of self awareness.Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

In the second episode of "It's Not Me, It's You" series, John and Vanessa explore what’s happening underneath their relationship. John not feeling desired, Vanessa not feeling good enough, and patterns they were not aware of.

In this episode, John explains the difference between those who have an abundant mindset vs a scarcity mindset.Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  

In this episode, John reads and discusses a chapter from his new book "Single. On Purpose."Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  

In this episode, John talks about the three green flags you should look for in a relationship. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  

In the first episode of "It's Not Me, It's You" series, John and Vanessa discuss their relationship and feelings around the three year itch.

In this episode, John talks about how to soak up the moments and spark joy in your life. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

In this episode, John talks about the things he finds beauty in in his life. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

In this episode, John talks about how to find freedom in your life. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

In this episode, John talks about how to make things easier for yourself. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

In this episode, John answers a question he's most commonly asked: how do I change someone? Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  

In this episode, John talks about the three most common signs you'll feel or see when your relationship is in trouble. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

In this hour long episode, John and his partner, Vanessa, talk about therapy, trauma, relationships, childhood, parenting, and much more with another couple, the Jaffe's. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

In this episode, John talks about whether being in an easy relationship means you're with the right person or not. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

In this episode, John talks about how to be productive in a healthy way. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

In this episode, John talks about the importance of growth and how it's a process. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

In this episode, John talks about the importance of creating new lenses after hardship. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

In this episode, John reads a letter he wrote to his future self. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

In this episode, John talks about how to actively seek beauty in your life. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  

In this episode, John explains his take on "the one," and how to focus on finding the perfect in your partner rather than finding the perfect partner. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  

In this episode, John talks about his definition of beauty. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  

In this episode, John talks about the difference between feeling in love and feeling in lost, and how some people can mistake one for the other. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

In this episode, John talks the about the importance of hitting pause on life and taking the time to feel gratitude. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

In this episode, John shares some advice and tips on how to deal with a jealous boyfriend, girlfriend, or partner. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

In the second episode of the Gratitude Series, John talks about all of the things he is grateful for in his life right now. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

In this episode, John talks about how not to drift in your relationship. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

John processes his past possibly coming back. Some potential tv projects has him feeling anxiety and powerlessness. He’s afraid he’s going to snap back to who he used to be. 

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Justin Baldoni is an actor, director, and filmmaker. He is best known for portraying Rafael Solano on The CW satirical romantic dramedy Jane the Virgin as well as directing the films Five Feet Apart and Clouds. He is a husband and father with a passion in men’s work. John and Justin create a dialogue about toxic masculinity and his new book, “Man Enough.” 

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

An amazing story of an addict who went from suicidal attempt to living in gratitude and helping others, just by being positive and seeing the world through new lenses. His story will give you chills and a new appreciation for life.

John passes his phone around to his friends who share how they know him, a life revelation, and who their doppelbänger- someone they slept with who looks like a celebrity- is.

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Therapists should see a therapist as well. John gets back into his own therapy, something he hasn’t done in a long time.  In this session he processes his greatest fear, people thinking he’s a fraud.  

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

One of the great miracles of this life is it throws boomerangs. Your past comes back. In a good way. And allows you to connect dots. Believe there was a reason. Understand there is always something bigger happening. If you have 10 minutes, let me explain. 

In this episode, John Kim gives you his definition of the new love. Because old love can be residue and we can’t grow without new definitions.

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John Kim's newest book is OUT NOW! Single on Purpose. It hit #1 in Dating on Amazon, Order it now!  John Kim talks about intimacy and sexuality with TAT Lab instructor Rena Martine ___ John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. ____  Ready to try the Lab? Try a new way to grow. Like fitness classes but for your mental and emotional health: https://www.tat-lab.com Sign up for texting with The Angry Therapist: https://www.theangrytherapist.com/texts Want to change your own life, give back to others and change the way others experience the world? Let's talk. Join JRNI Coaching and become a life coach. ____ Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.

John Kim's newest book is OUT NOW! Single on Purpose. It hit #1 in Dating on Amazon, Order it now!  ___ John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. BetterHelp.com -- Get 10% off your first month with code ANGRY BetterHelp is affordable, private online counseling. Anytime, anywhere. Talk with a licensed, professional therapist online. BetterHelp will match you to one of 13,000 licensed therapists. Get feedback, advice and guidance from your counselor. ____  Skillshare -- Learn ANYTHING and thrive. The Angry Therapist listeners: Get 14 Day free trial of Skillshare Premium Membership! Click here to redeem  Use this code: https://www.skillshare.com/angry Explore more than 32,000 classes to fuel your curiosity, creativity, and career. ____ Ready to try the Lab? Try a new way to grow. Like fitness classes but for your mental and emotional health: https://www.tat-lab.com Sign up for texting with The Angry Therapist: https://www.theangrytherapist.com/texts Want to change your own life, give back to others and change the way others experience the world? Let's talk. Join JRNI Coaching and become a life coach. ____ Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.

John Kim's newest book is OUT NOW! Single on Purpose. It hit #1 in Dating on Amazon, Order it now!  John Kim talks about love in your 20s with TAT LAB fellow Tess Brewer. ___ John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. ____  Ready to try the Lab? Try a new way to grow. Like fitness classes but for your mental and emotional health: https://www.tat-lab.com Sign up for texting with The Angry Therapist: https://www.theangrytherapist.com/texts Want to change your own life, give back to others and change the way others experience the world? Let's talk. Join JRNI Coaching and become a life coach. ____ Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.

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John Kim's newest book is OUT NOW! Single on Purpose. It hit #1 in Dating on Amazon, Order it now!  John Kim talks adventure, nomadic life and breathwork with TAT lab instructor Brandon Groux. ___ John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. ____  Ready to try the Lab? Try a new way to grow. Like fitness classes but for your mental and emotional health: https://www.tat-lab.com Sign up for texting with The Angry Therapist: https://www.theangrytherapist.com/texts Want to change your own life, give back to others and change the way others experience the world? Let's talk. Join JRNI Coaching and become a life coach. ____ Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.

John Kim's newest book is OUT NOW! Single on Purpose. It hit #1 in Dating on Amazon, Order it now!  ___ John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. ---- BetterHelp.com -- Get 10% off your first month with code ANGRY BetterHelp is affordable, private online counseling. Anytime, anywhere. Talk with a licensed, professional therapist online. BetterHelp will match you to one of 13,000 licensed therapists. Get feedback, advice and guidance from your counselor. --- Calm.com Sleep more. Stress less. Live better. Get 40% off your membership by visiting Calm.com/angrytherapist You can use Calm.com to reduce stress, better sleep, develop gratitude, increase happiness, improve performance, build self-esteem or reduce anxiety. Get 40% off your membership by visiting Calm.com/angrytherapist --- Get $5 OFF -- Magic Spoon is healthy cereal that tastes too good to be true. Keto cereal that's High-Protein, Low-Sugar, Keto-Friendly, Non-GMO, Gluten-Free, Grain-Free, Soy-Free, Wheat-Free! Now you can have your cereal and eat it too. Nothing Artificial. Try Magic Spoon with our 100% happiness guarantee. $5 OFF -- MAGICSPOON.COM/ANGRY PROMO CODE: ANGRY ____  Ready to try the Lab? Try a new way to grow. Like fitness classes but for your mental and emotional health: https://www.tat-lab.com Sign up for texting with The Angry Therapist: https://www.theangrytherapist.com/texts Want to change your own life, give back to others and change the way others experience the world? Let's talk. Join JRNI Coaching and become a life coach. ____ Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.

John Kim's newest book is OUT NOW! Single on Purpose. It hit #1 in Dating on Amazon, Order it now!  John Kim goes deep on re-wiring with TAT lab instructor Jenn Reddy. ___ John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. ____  Ready to try the Lab? Try a new way to grow. Like fitness classes but for your mental and emotional health: https://www.tat-lab.com Sign up for texting with The Angry Therapist: https://www.theangrytherapist.com/texts Want to change your own life, give back to others and change the way others experience the world? Let's talk. Join JRNI Coaching and become a life coach. ____ Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.

John Kim's newest book is OUT NOW! Single on Purpose. It hit #1 in Dating on Amazon, Order it now! ___ John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. THRIVE MARKET -- 25% off your first order and a FREE GIFT Buy healthy food from top-selling, organic brands at wholesale prices. Thrive Market makes healthy living easy. Your favorite organic & non-GMO brands, plus guaranteed savings—delivered to your door. Tailored to any diet! Visit www.thrivemarket.com/angrytherapist to get 25% off your first order and a free gift, and your membership helps support those in need. ___ Skillshare -- Learn ANYTHING and thrive. The Angry Therapist listeners: Get 14 Day free trial of Skillshare Premium Membership! Click here to redeem  Use this code: https://www.skillshare.com/angry Explore more than 32,000 classes to fuel your curiosity, creativity, and career. ____  Ready to try the Lab? Try a new way to grow. Like fitness classes but for your mental and emotional health: https://www.tat-lab.com Sign up for texting with The Angry Therapist: https://www.theangrytherapist.com/texts Want to change your own life, give back to others and change the way others experience the world? Let's talk. Join JRNI Coaching and become a life coach. ____ Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.

John Kim's newest book is OUT NOW! Single on Purpose. It hit #1 in Dating on Amazon, Order it now! ___ John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. ____  Ready to try the Lab? Try a new way to grow. Like fitness classes but for your mental and emotional health: https://www.tat-lab.com Sign up for texting with The Angry Therapist: https://www.theangrytherapist.com/texts Want to change your own life, give back to others and change the way others experience the world? Let's talk. Join JRNI Coaching and become a life coach. ____ Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.

John Kim's newest book is OUT NOW! Single on Purpose. It hit #1 in Dating on Amazon, Order it now! ____ BetterHelp.com -- Get 10% off your first month with code ANGRY BetterHelp is affordable, private online counseling. Anytime, anywhere. Talk with a licensed, professional therapist online. BetterHelp will match you to one of 13,000 licensed therapists. Get feedback, advice and guidance from your counselor. ___ Four Sigmatic Coffee Get 40% off and FREE shipping! USE CODE ANGRY -- http://foursigmatic.com/angry TRY MUSHROOM COFFEE. A better way to power up! Coffee and Lions Mane get your brain going. Chaga can keep the stomach calm and the body well. No more sacrificing your afternoon for your morning. ___ PLUSHCARE -- Free 30 Day Trial Book a same-day appointment with a top online doctor. Get diagnosed and prescribed in as little as 15 minutes. Our primary care doctors are available 24/7. FREE 30 DAY TRIAL for Angry Therapist Listeners ___ John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. ____  Ready to try the Lab? Try a new way to grow. Like fitness classes but for your mental and emotional health: https://www.tat-lab.com Sign up for texting with The Angry Therapist: https://www.theangrytherapist.com/texts Want to change your own life, give back to others and change the way others experience the world? Let's talk. Join JRNI Coaching and become a life coach. ____ Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.

John Kim's newest book is OUT NOW! Single on Purpose. It hit #1 in Dating on Amazon, Order it now! ___ Calm.com Sleep more. Stress less. Live better. Get 40% off your membership by visiting Calm.com/angrytherapist You can use Calm.com to reduce stress, better sleep, develop gratitude, increase happiness, improve performance, build self-esteem or reduce anxiety. Get 40% off your membership by visiting Calm.com/angrytherapist ____ John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. ____  Ready to try the Lab? Try a new way to grow. Like fitness classes but for your mental and emotional health: https://www.tat-lab.com Sign up for texting with The Angry Therapist: https://www.theangrytherapist.com/texts Want to change your own life, give back to others and change the way others experience the world? Let's talk. Join JRNI Coaching and become a life coach. ___ Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.

Do you believe in love at first sight? John breaks down this common misconception about love. John Kim's newest book is OUT NOW! Single on Purpose. It hit #1 in Dating on Amazon, Order it now! _____ NordVPN Special Deal! Shield your Internet browsing from criminals and surveillance With NordVPN, all the data you send and receive online travels through an encrypted tunnel. This way, no one can get their hands on your private information. Every purchase of a 2-year plan will get you 1 additional month free. Go to https://nordvpn.com/TheAngryTherapist and use the coupon THEANGRYTHERAPIST at checkout.   Get $5 OFF -- Magic Spoon is healthy cereal that tastes too good to be true. Keto cereal that's High-Protein, Low-Sugar, Keto-Friendly, Non-GMO, Gluten-Free, Grain-Free, Soy-Free, Wheat-Free! Now you can have your cereal and eat it too. Nothing Artificial. Try Magic Spoon with our 100% happiness guarantee. $5 OFF -- MAGICSPOON.COM/ANGRY PROMO CODE: ANGRY ___ Want to change your own life, give back to others and change the way others experience the world? Let's talk. Join JRNI Coaching and become a life coach. ____ Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.

John Kim's newest book is OUT NOW! Single on Purpose. It hit #1 in Dating on Amazon, Order it now! John Kim goes deep on singlehood with TAT lab instructor Dene Selkin. ___ THRIVE MARKET -- 25% off your first order and a FREE GIFT Buy healthy food from top-selling, organic brands at wholesale prices. Thrive Market makes healthy living easy. Your favorite organic & non-GMO brands, plus guaranteed savings—delivered to your door. Tailored to any diet! Visit www.thrivemarket.com/angrytherapist to get 25% off your first order and a free gift, and your membership helps support those in need. ___ John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. ____  Ready to try the Lab? Try a new way to grow. Like fitness classes but for your mental and emotional health: https://www.tat-lab.com Sign up for texting with The Angry Therapist: https://www.theangrytherapist.com/texts Want to change your own life, give back to others and change the way others experience the world? Let's talk. Join JRNI Coaching and become a life coach. ____ Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke. ___

John Kim's newest book is OUT NOW! Single on Purpose. It hit #1 in Dating on Amazon, Order it now!  _____ Skillshare -- Learn ANYTHING and thrive. The Angry Therapist listeners: Get 14 Day free trial of Skillshare Premium Membership! Click here to redeem  Use this code: https://www.skillshare.com/angry Explore more than 32,000 classes to fuel your curiosity, creativity, and career. -- Four Sigmatic Coffee Get 40% off and FREE shipping! USE CODE ANGRY -- http://foursigmatic.com/angry TRY MUSHROOM COFFEE. A better way to power up! Coffee and Lions Mane get your brain going. Chaga can keep the stomach calm and the body well. No more sacrificing your afternoon for your morning. ___ John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. ____  Ready to try the Lab? Try a new way to grow. Like fitness classes but for your mental and emotional health: https://www.tat-lab.com Sign up for texting with The Angry Therapist: https://www.theangrytherapist.com/texts Want to change your own life, give back to others and change the way others experience the world? Let's talk. Join JRNI Coaching and become a life coach. ____ Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke

John Kim's newest book is OUT NOW! Single on Purpose. It hit #1 in Dating on Amazon, Order it now!  ____ John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. ____  Ready to try the Lab? Try a new way to grow. Like fitness classes but for your mental and emotional health: https://www.tat-lab.com Sign up for texting with The Angry Therapist: https://www.theangrytherapist.com/texts Want to change your own life, give back to others and change the way others experience the world? Let's talk. Join JRNI Coaching and become a life coach. ____ Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.

John Kim's newest book is OUT TODAY! Single on Purpose. It hit #1 in Dating on Amazon, Order it now! John's doing a special series of episodes to dive deep into the concepts from the book. _____ NordVPN Special Deal! Shield your Internet browsing from criminals and surveillance With NordVPN, all the data you send and receive online travels through an encrypted tunnel. This way, no one can get their hands on your private information. Every purchase of a 2-year plan will get you 1 additional month free. Go to https://nordvpn.com/TheAngryTherapist and use the coupon THEANGRYTHERAPIST at checkout.   Get $5 OFF -- Magic Spoon is healthy cereal that tastes too good to be true. Keto cereal that's High-Protein, Low-Sugar, Keto-Friendly, Non-GMO, Gluten-Free, Grain-Free, Soy-Free, Wheat-Free! Now you can have your cereal and eat it too. Nothing Artificial. Try Magic Spoon with our 100% happiness guarantee. $5 OFF -- MAGICSPOON.COM/ANGRY PROMO CODE: ANGRY ___ Want to change your own life, give back to others and change the way others experience the world? Let's talk. Join JRNI Coaching and become a life coach. ____ Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.

John Kim's newest book is almost here: Single on Purpose. It's already #1 in Dating on Amazon, Pre-order it now! John's doing a special series of episodes to dive deep into the concepts from the book!  ____  Skillshare -- Learn ANYTHING and thrive. The Angry Therapist listeners: Get 2 months free trial of Skillshare Premium Membership! Click here to redeem  Use this code: https://www.skillshare.com/angry Explore more than 32,000 classes to fuel your curiosity, creativity, and career. ___  THRIVE MARKET -- 25% off your first order Buy healthy food from top-selling, organic brands at wholesale prices. Thrive Market makes healthy living easy. Your favorite organic & non-GMO brands, plus guaranteed savings—delivered to your door. Tailored to any diet! Visit www.thrivemarket.com/angrytherapist to get 25% off your first order and a free gift, and your membership helps support those in need.

John Kim's newest book is almost here: Single on Purpose. It's already #1 in Dating on Amazon, Pre-order it now! John's doing a special series of episodes to dive deep into the concepts from the book!  ____  Ready to try the Lab? Try a new way to grow. Like fitness classes but for your mental and emotional health: https://www.tat-lab.com Sign up for texting with The Angry Therapist: https://www.theangrytherapist.com/texts Want to change your own life, give back to others and change the way others experience the world? Let's talk. Join JRNI Coaching and become a life coach. ____ Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.

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John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. ____  Ready to try the Lab? Try a new way to grow. Like fitness classes but for your mental and emotional health: https://www.tat-lab.com Sign up for texting with The Angry Therapist: https://www.theangrytherapist.com/texts Want to change your own life, give back to others and change the way others experience the world? Let's talk. Join JRNI Coaching and become a life coach. ____ Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.

John Kim goes deep on all aspects of wellness with TAT lab instructor Barbara Haynes. ____ NordVPN Special Christmas Deal! Shield your Internet browsing from criminals and surveillance With NordVPN, all the data you send and receive online travels through an encrypted tunnel. This way, no one can get their hands on your private information. Every purchase of a 2-year plan will get you 4 additional months free. Go to https://nordvpn.com/TheAngryTherapist and use the coupon THEANGRYTHERAPIST at checkout. ____ Calm.com Sleep more. Stress less. Live better. Get 40% off your membership by visiting Calm.com/angrytherapist You can use Calm.com to reduce stress, better sleep, develop gratitude, increase happiness, improve performance, build self-esteem or reduce anxiety. Get 40% off your membership by visiting Calm.com/angrytherapist ____ John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. ____  Ready to try the Lab? Try a new way to grow. Like fitness classes but for your mental and emotional health: https://www.tat-lab.com Sign up for texting with The Angry Therapist: https://www.theangrytherapist.com/texts Want to change your own life, give back to others and change the way others experience the world? Let's talk. Join JRNI Coaching and become a life coach. ____ Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.

John Kim goes deep on codependency within relationships with TAT lab instructor Vanessa Bennett. ____ John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. ____  Ready to try the Lab? Try a new way to grow. Like fitness classes but for your mental and emotional health: https://www.tat-lab.com Sign up for texting with The Angry Therapist: https://www.theangrytherapist.com/texts Want to change your own life, give back to others and change the way others experience the world? Let's talk. Join JRNI Coaching and become a life coach. ____ Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.

John Kim goes deep on relationships and attachment styles with TAT lab instructor Taune Lyons. ___ Skillshare -- Learn ANYTHING and thrive. The Angry Therapist listeners: Get 2 months free trial of Skillshare Premium Membership! Click here to redeem  Use this code: https://www.skillshare.com/angry Explore more than 32,000 classes to fuel your curiosity, creativity, and career, and learn to make handmade gifts for Christmas! ___ Magic Spoon is healthy cereal that tastes too good to be true. Keto cereal that's High-Protein, Low-Sugar, Keto-Friendly, Non-GMO, Gluten-Free, Grain-Free, Soy-Free, Wheat-Free! Now you can have your cereal and eat it too. Nothing Artificial. Try Magic Spoon with our 100% happiness guarantee and free shipping! MAGICSPOON.COM/ANGRY PROMO CODE: ANGRY ____ John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. ____  Ready to try the Lab? Try a new way to grow. Like fitness classes but for your mental and emotional health: https://www.tat-lab.com Sign up for texting with The Angry Therapist: https://www.theangrytherapist.com/texts Want to change your own life, give back to others and change the way others experience the world? Let's talk. Join JRNI Coaching and become a life coach. ____ Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.

John Kim goes deep on astrology and relationships with coach and TAT lab instructor Milly Murillo, of AstroConsciousness. ___ John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. ____  Ready to try the Lab? Try a new way to grow. Like fitness classes but for your mental and emotional health: https://www.tat-lab.com Sign up for texting with The Angry Therapist: https://www.theangrytherapist.com/texts Want to change your own life, give back to others and change the way others experience the world? Let's talk. Join JRNI Coaching and become a life coach. ____ Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.

Reading Jack Kornfield teaches me a few things about love and kindness. ___ BetterHelp.com -- Get 10% off your first month with code ANGRY BetterHelp is affordable, private online counseling. Anytime, anywhere. Talk with a licensed, professional therapist online. BetterHelp will match you to one of 13,000 licensed therapists. Get feedback, advice and guidance from your counselor. __________ Calm.com Sleep more. Stress less. Live better. Get 40% off your membership by visiting Calm.com/angrytherapist You can use Calm.com to reduce stress, better sleep, develop gratitude, increase happiness, improve performance, build self-esteem or reduce anxiety. Get 40% off your membership by visiting Calm.com/angrytherapist ____ Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.

____ John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. ____  Ready to try the Lab? Try a new way to grow. Like fitness classes but for your mental and emotional health: https://www.tat-lab.com Sign up for texting with The Angry Therapist: https://www.theangrytherapist.com/texts Want to change your own life, give back to others and change the way others experience the world? Let's talk. Join JRNI Coaching and become a life coach. ____ Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.

What if you thought it was love, but what if it wasn't?John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. ____ BetterHelp.com -- Get 10% off your first month with code ANGRY BetterHelp is affordable, private online counseling. Anytime, anywhere. Talk with a licensed, professional therapist online. BetterHelp will match you to one of 13,000 licensed therapists. Get feedback, advice and guidance from your counselor. __________ United Harvest is the very best meats, delivered directly to you. Get rib-eye steaks, wagyu, lamb chops and so much more. United Harvest is rancher owned -- a community of like-minded and impassioned farmers, united in a direct-to-consumer food revolution.  USE CODE: ANGRY for 20% off your entire order of $50 or more ____ Try a new way to grow. Like fitness classes but for your mental and emotional health: https://www.tat-lab.com Sign up for texting with The Angry Therapist: https://www.theangrytherapist.com/texts Want to change your own life, give back to others and change the way others experience the world? Let's talk. Join JRNI Coaching and become a life coach. ____ Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.

A re-broadcast from 2018, we goes into the small stuff and talks about handling difficult situations over the holidays. ____ John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. ____  Ready to try the Lab? Try a new way to grow. Like fitness classes but for your mental and emotional health: https://www.tat-lab.com Sign up for texting with The Angry Therapist: https://www.theangrytherapist.com/texts Want to change your own life, give back to others and change the way others experience the world? Let's talk. Join JRNI Coaching and become a life coach. ____ Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.

Everyone wants to be a better partner -- here's three ways to become one. John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. ____  United Harvest is the very best meats, delivered directly to you. Get rib-eye steaks, wagyu, lamb chops and so much more. United Harvest is rancher owned -- a community of like-minded and impassioned farmers, united in a direct-to-consumer food revolution.  USE CODE: ANGRY for 20% off your entire order of $50 or more ____ Try a new way to grow. Like fitness classes but for your mental and emotional health: https://www.tat-lab.com Sign up for texting with The Angry Therapist: https://www.theangrytherapist.com/texts Want to change your own life, give back to others and change the way others experience the world? Let's talk. Join JRNI Coaching and become a life coach. ____ Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.

John Kim goes deep on sex and love addiction with coach and TAT lab instructor Sean Cardinalli.  ____ John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. ____  Ready to try the Lab? Try a new way to grow. Like fitness classes but for your mental and emotional health: https://www.tat-lab.com Sign up for texting with The Angry Therapist: https://www.theangrytherapist.com/texts Want to change your own life, give back to others and change the way others experience the world? Let's talk. Join JRNI Coaching and become a life coach. ____ Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.

Are you ready for real commitment in a relationship?  ___ Calm.comSleep more. Stress less. Live better. Get 40% off your membership by visiting Calm.com/angrytherapistYou can use Calm.com to reduce stress, better sleep, develop gratitude, increase happiness, improve performance, build self-esteem or reduce anxiety. Get 40% off your membership by visiting Calm.com/angrytherapist ____ Magic Spoon is healthy cereal that tastes too good to be true. Keto cereal that's High-Protein, Low-Sugar, Keto-Friendly, Non-GMO, Gluten-Free, Grain-Free, Soy-Free, Wheat-Free! Now you can have your cereal and eat it too. Nothing Artificial. Try Magic Spoon with our 100% happiness guarantee and free shipping! MAGICSPOON.COM/ANGRYPROMO CODE: ANGRY ____ Sign up for texting with The Angry Therapist: https://www.theangrytherapist.com/texts Want to change your own life, give back to others and change the way others experience the world? Let's talk. Join JRNI Coaching and become a life coach. ____ Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.

Is it real love, or just a trauma bond?John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. ____  Try a new way to grow. Like fitness classes but for your mental and emotional health: https://www.tat-lab.com Sign up for texting with The Angry Therapist: https://www.theangrytherapist.com/texts Want to change your own life, give back to others and change the way others experience the world? Let's talk. Join JRNI Coaching and become a life coach. ____ Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.

My guest today is Mike Sagun. He's incredible and we had an amazing conversation about men's mental health and self care and so much more.____ BetterHelp.com -- Get 10% off your first month with code ANGRY BetterHelp is affordable, private online counseling. Anytime, anywhere. Talk with a licensed, professional therapist online. BetterHelp will match you to one of 13,000 licensed therapists. Get feedback, advice and guidance from your counselor.____MIKE SAGUN -- Mike is a certified professional men’s coach and co-founder of The Unshakable Man. He has a BA in Education and spent 10 years as a teaching artist coaching young people. He trained with Challenge Day and with Lincoln Center Education in NYC. In 2017, Mike delivered a Ted Talk about the significance for young people to have trusted adults in their lives. Recognizing the impact and importance of deep emotional health propelled him into his coaching career. After graduating from Coaches Training Institute, Mike launched his coaching practice with the purpose of creating safe spaces for men to think deeply about themselves and to develop skills for living authentic lives. Since then, Mike has partnered with companies like DropBox, LinkedIn, Google, Kaiser Permanente, and Saje Wellness. Mike also partners with EVRYMAN, where he hosts men's groups, facilitates men’s retreats, coaches individuals, and co-leads EVRYMAN's diversity and inclusion program. When Mike isn't coaching, hosting webinars, or developing ways to help men grow, you can find him with dirty hands, either gardening or in the kitchen cooking with his husband, Jerry. Mike, Jerry, and their pit-bull rescue, Bert, live in San Miguel de Allende, Mexico. --- John Kim is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. One hour, one guest, no filler. Interested in becoming a coach and making a bigger impact in the lives of others, while finding personal freedom? Learn more here. Want texts from Angry? https://www.theangrytherapist.com/texts ____ Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke, with support from Stephanie Zoccatelli. Want to change your own life, give back to others and change the way others experience the world? Let's talk. Become a life coach.

It's time to bring kissing back. John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. ____  Try a new way to grow. Like fitness classes but for your mental and emotional health: https://www.tat-lab.com Sign up for texting with The Angry Therapist: https://www.theangrytherapist.com/texts Want to change your own life, give back to others and change the way others experience the world? Let's talk. Join JRNI Coaching and become a life coach. ____ Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. _____ BetterHelp.com -- Get 10% off your first month with code ANGRY BetterHelp is affordable, private online counseling. Anytime, anywhere. Talk with a licensed, professional therapist online. BetterHelp will match you to one of 13,000 licensed therapists. Get feedback, advice and guidance from your counselor. ________ Want to change your own life, give back to others and change the way others experience the world? Let's talk. Join JRNI Coaching and become a life coach. ____ Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.

Can your relationship last? John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. ____  Try a new way to grow. Like fitness classes but for your mental and emotional health: https://www.tat-lab.com Sign up for texting with The Angry Therapist: https://www.theangrytherapist.com/texts Want to change your own life, give back to others and change the way others experience the world? Let's talk. Join JRNI Coaching and become a life coach. ____ Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. ____  TRY HELLO FRESH and GET $80 OFF your first 5 boxes and FREE shipping with code: ANGRYTHERAPIST80 Hello Fresh is quick, easy, delicious meal delivery kits sent straight to your doo. Take dinner off your plate with 20 weekly meal choices. Get everything you need to cook delicious meals delivered to your door! Hello Fresh America's Most Popular Meal Kit✅ Most 5-Star-Reviews✅ Now offering the most recipe variety✅ Fresh and affordable Meal Delivery  GET $80 OFF your first 5 boxes and free shipping with code: ANGRYTHERAPIST80 ________ Want to change your own life, give back to others and change the way others experience the world? Let's talk. Join JRNI Coaching and become a life coach. ____ Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.

"Just slow things down and it becomes more beautiful." - David Lynch John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. ____  Try a new way to grow. Like fitness classes but for your mental and emotional health: https://www.tat-lab.com Sign up for texting with The Angry Therapist: https://www.theangrytherapist.com/texts Want to change your own life, give back to others and change the way others experience the world? Let's talk. Join JRNI Coaching and become a life coach. ____ Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.

This is how you know. And you gotta be honest. John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. ____  TRY HELLO FRESH and GET $80 OFF with code: ANGRYTHERAPIST80 Hello Fresh is quick, easy, delicious meal delivery kits sent straight to your doo. Take dinner off your plate with 20 weekly meal choices. Get everything you need to cook delicious meals delivered to your door! Hello Fresh America's Most Popular Meal Kit✅ Most 5-Star-Reviews ✅ Now offering the most recipe variety ✅ Fresh and affordable Meal Delivery.  GET $80 OFF with code: ANGRYTHERAPIST80 ________ Want to change your own life, give back to others and change the way others experience the world? Let's talk. Join JRNI Coaching and become a life coach. ____ Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.

Ancient stoic technique for growth. Check it out. John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler. ____  Try a new way to grow. Like fitness classes but for your mental and emotional health: https://www.tat-lab.com Sign up for texting with The Angry Therapist: https://www.theangrytherapist.com/texts Want to change your own life, give back to others and change the way others experience the world? Let's talk. Join JRNI Coaching and become a life coach. ____ Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.

What's the biggest and most important promise you can make to yourself? ___ Magic Spoon is healthy cereal that tastes too good to be true. Keto cereal that's High-Protein, Low-Sugar, Keto-Friendly, Non-GMO, Gluten-Free, Grain-Free, Soy-Free, Wheat-Free! Now you can have your cereal and eat it too. Nothing Artificial. Try Magic Spoon with our 100% happiness guarantee and free shipping! MAGICSPOON.COM/ANGRYPROMO CODE: ANGRY ____ Sign up for texting with The Angry Therapist: https://www.theangrytherapist.com/texts Want to change your own life, give back to others and change the way others experience the world? Let's talk. Join JRNI Coaching and become a life coach. ____ Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.