How do we go from relationship struggles to relationship goals?In Episode 37 of Season 2, we sit down with Zahra Aljabri to discuss what it means to marry our unfinished business, how we can overcome the pain points of our current relationship and how to deal with insecurities from our past. Zahra is a spiritual coach who will help guide us when it comes to the obstacles we face in our relationships. She breaks it down for us when it comes to dealing with past issues manifesting themselves into our current relationships. We also discuss how to deal with our partner's insecurities, especially when they feel entitled to our social media passwords, for example.So, where do we go from here?Almost every solution lies in having brutally honest conversations with our significant other especially when it comes to what each of us may be lacking. We hope this episode provides you with clarity, regardless if you're single, engaged or have been married for ten plus years. Every relationship comes with its struggles, so why not have the necessary tools to overcome them?Enjoy and remember to follow us on Instagram:@unsweetenedandunfilteredFollow Zahra on Instagram:@zforzahraFollow Practical Muslim on Instagram:@practicalmuslimCheck out Zahra's Website for more Resources:Zahra's site

Our votes have been cast, our ballots have been counted, the new President-elect and VP have been announced and the world can finally let out a collective sigh...temporarily.On this week's Unfltrd Thoughts, we sit down with Arij Mikati, an activist and anti-racism educator, to discuss where do we go from here post election.A projected 161 million Americans voted in the 2020 elections - a nail biting, stress induced presidential race that resulted in Biden becoming President-elect and Kamala Harris as the first Black, South Asian female President. Now what? Our goal of kicking Trump out resulted in us voting for individuals who we may not be that fond of their histories and prior policies. In this conversation we discuss key points such as how the voting results reflected how we, the people, are truly in power, how do we hold Biden/Harris accountable, what do we do about both of these candidates endorsing AIPAC and how do we challenge their support of the illegal occupation of Palestine?

On this week’s “Unfltrd Thoughts”, we discuss silly, but still kind of important deal breakers. Whether it’s the type of shoes that they wear (yes, this is a big concern to one of us, apparently) or what reality shows they’re into, we all have those little pet peeves that’ll send us packing. In this light-hearted conversation, we talk about some of the obvious and not so obvious things we can’t put up with. Head to our Instagram page @unsweetenedandunfiltered and join the conversation. Do you have any silly deal breakers? 

On this week’s “Unfltrd Thoughts”, we answer the question: “Would you rather know the truth no matter how painful, or would you prefer being comforted by little white lies?” The truth is a powerful tool, one that can unlock many layers of a relationship.But what if a truth is too much for you to handle? We discuss our own personal thoughts on radical honesty, and just how hurtful it can be to find yourself on the receiving end of a lie being told.Head to our Instagram page @unsweetenedandunfiltered and join the conversation. Which scenario would you prefer? 

On this week’s “Unfltrd Thoughts", we talk about how to handle finding out your friend’s true colors.Our differences make us who we are and when it comes to our friend groups it’s those differences that lead to intriguing conversations and learning more about the other.But what if those differences go against or negate your own life's values?We’re not talking about rooting for an opposing sports team here, but what if, for instance, you find out your friend supports Trump?We share our thoughts on discovering those friendship deal breakers and how we would respond to a similar situation. Head to our Instagram page @unsweetenedandunfiltered and join the conversation. Would you stay friends with someone who supported a cause you are firmly against?

On this week’s “Unfltrd Thoughts", we talk about soulmates and whether or not we think they exist. Life isn’t a Disney movie or romantic comedy starring Meg Ryan & Tom Hanks - unfortunately.  But does that mean soulmates are a thing of fiction? The idea of finding your soulmate has become more of a cliche than anything else over the years, but the idea that there is someone out there made especially for you, is an idea we want to hang on to. We also dive into the ayah “we created you in pairs”, and whether that applies to everyone. Head to our Instagram page @unsweetenedandunfiltered and join the conversation. Do you think soulmates are the same thing as “naseeb”? 

In our first "Unfltrd Thoughts", we talk about forgiveness. We dig deep into our own personal process when it comes to forgiving those who've wronged us and moments that may signal conflicts that are yet unresolved.One of the hardest relationships to have is the one you share with yourself. So, learning to forgive past mistakes you've made isn't the easiest thing to do, but we talk about how we're learning to cut ourselves some slack.Don't forget to head to our Instagram page @unsweetenedandunfiltered and share your thoughts on forgiveness with us.