What are boundaries really? Because kids naturally don’t like rules, they will always try to break them, negotiate, not do it, … But I also didn’t want to force, push, or yell at my daughter if she said no or didn’t listen. Because I didn’t want her to grow up into being me: the one who always listened and never said no out of fear, and ended up becoming a resentful people-pleaser, walking on eggshells not to make mommy mad = afraid of not being loved.So is it even possible to have rules and get them respected without yelling and all that drama around it? I won’t sugar-coat it, this one took me a while to figure out because I didn’t have any healthy role models growing up. So this is where I’m at with it right now, perfectly imperfect…You can catch this episode on Youtube at https://youtu.be/FK8UCjILepcSupport the showDid this episode help you in any way?Leave a review and comment here: https://lovethepodcast.com/zensupermomWant to know the 3 game-changing steps to become a calm mom and stop yelling? (Without memorizing any parenting scripts, without months in mediation or years in talk therapy?)Grab it here for FREE: https://www.zensupermom.com/zen-supermom-systemAbout the Author:Alena Gomes Rodrigues is a mommy tantrum specialist and a trauma-informed mental fitness coach for busy moms.She's definitely NOT a supermom. But through her own journey as a recovering perfectionist, hyper-achiever, and a 'Momzilla', she discovered the most effective strategy and tools to help busy moms stop yelling at their kids and set & keap healthy boundaries so that they stay calm, at peace, and happy no matter how stressful their life gets.Want to know HOW? Join us for the upcoming free workshop! https://www.zensupermom.com/workshopHave feedback & comments? Email
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